Writing to a man you like – a general view

How to get a guy you like via SMS – Top 50 phrases

The most part of acquaintances and further communication takes place through correspondence. And we always want the dialogue to be bright and interesting, and not descend into the banal “Hello, how are you, what are you doing”.

But at the same time I want to keep an intrigue and not to seem intrusive. What unusual phrases can hook a guy who likes you and hold his interest?

Basic rules of communication

Before you begin to comprehend the art of virtual communication and “go on the attack”, you should learn a few rules that certainly will not be superfluous.

Yes, emotions can run high. Especially in the early stages of a relationship. Even if you can afford to stay on your smartphone 24 hours a day, you don’t have to.

Don’t spill your schedule, don’t share all the little things and details of what’s going on with you.

You need to take a break between messages and get out of the dialogue. Keep yourself busy with whatever you need to do to avoid being online.

  • Control the number of messages in a row.

People who don’t spend their days and nights tucked away in a computer, phone or tablet have their lives and get busy during the day. So if you’ve written a message and there hasn’t been a reply for a while, there’s no need to “shoot” repeated ones, much less call.

Such behavior can irritate the guy. And even if he originally had the warmest feelings for you, his interest may fade significantly.

  • Forget the long texts.

Get rid of the habit of writing “canvases. Long and colorful stories is better reserved for a personal meeting.

Keep your messages short and succinct. Good, if you get to observe the rule of “3:1”, when 3 proposals from the guy you answer with one.

  • If there are no messages – that’s a reason to worry.

But it’s not you who needs to worry, it’s him. Don’t be the eternal initiator of correspondence, but don’t leave the last word to yourself either. Disappear from the dialogue for a while, then come back. This is a useful trick.

Prepare some sort of explanation like “relatives came over,” “got stuck at work/study,” “mom asked me to help.” When you’re gone for a long time, a guy starts to appreciate the time, you, and your correspondence more.

What to write a guy to make him fall in love?

  • Be a mystery.

It’s simple. Do not immediately open your soul wide. Answer questions about yourself briefly. Keep that halo of mystery.

Keep everything in moderation. And every time burst into dialogue spectacularly – with a prepared question or phrase. Sometimes a guy can fall into a slight stupor. But it’s even good for them and, moreover, more drawn into communication.

TOP-50 phrases and questions

Whether you’re still in a state of “just getting acquainted” or you’ve been communicating for some time, these phrases and questions are great to really get them interested.

So, pick what you like and go ahead and charm the victim.

  • I pressed something on the computer keyboard, and everything went out. What could it be?
  • Why is such a spectacular guy looking for a girlfriend on the Internet? I’m sure in real life girls follow you around in droves.
  • I want to ask you one question – what can you write to a guy you like?
  • I want to make sure that a handsome guy can be an interesting conversationalist. Can you help me?
  • Do you know what an electric shock is? That’s what happened when I looked at your picture.
  • Why so pensive in the picture? Don’t be sad. Life is amazing. If only because there is you.
  • I love this park too (the city, the horseback riding). I wonder what else we have in common?
  • I want to watch a movie tonight. Can you recommend something? I think you’re a good judge of movies and more.
  • I’ve never met a man with such a deep gaze. I’m impressed.
  • Do you really think the Internet is the place to start a serious relationship?
  • So much mystery in those beautiful eyes. Will you share one of them with me?
  • You have that look, like you’re hugging them. It makes me feel warm.
  • You look great. Is it an innate sense of taste or do you follow trends?
  • That look … When you see it, it doesn’t matter what your income, education, or bad habits are.
  • What do you think is more important for a girl – to be beautiful or smart? And what do you prefer?
  • Do you believe in love at first sight, or prefer a long time to look closely?
  • How do you like the news that “the plot of the latest news (for example, the ruble exchange rate has fallen sharply)”?
  • Do you think you should make decisions based on intuition?
  • Have you ever been told that you make a lasting impression on girls?
  • Name your favorite movie. Maybe that’s the one I’ll watch tonight.
  • You’ve probably been told a thousand times that you’re handsome. But it’s nice to hear a thousand times for the first time, too, isn’t it?
  • Guys are good with technology. Maybe you can help me pick out some headphones/player/phone?
  • I’m invited to my uncle’s birthday party. Can you tell me what to get him?
  • Do you think love is relevant or already a relic of the past?
  • If you had a time machine, where would you want to go?
  • If you happened to be a woman for a while, what would you do first?
  • I wonder if such a serious man has ever done anything reckless?
  • How do you feel about women’s initiative?
  • Do you want me to cheer you up?
  • You look like a purebred cat. I just want to pet you.
  • Your smile makes me lose my sanity.
  • Hi. I need a man’s opinion on something. Can you help me?
  • What do you think we have in common?
  • Oh, have you been to “name of town/place”? How did you like it there?
  • You have an X-ray look. I guess there’s no hiding it from you, is there?
  • Could you explain to me one of the rules of the road?
  • Your existence turns other guys into a faceless mass.
  • Is it true that all men are polygamous?
  • Tell me, what’s the difference between a screwdriver and a drill?
  • What attracts you most to girls?
  • If tomorrow is the end of the world, what would you do today?
  • Do you think money can buy happiness?
  • I feel like you’re different. I want to understand why.
  • Did you know that breeding in space is impossible?
  • Do you also think that female logic disables the male psyche?
  • What happens if you press the gas and brake at the same time in a car?
  • You could even go to a desert island.
  • I wonder if you fold or throw your socks?
  • You can make any day a holiday! You have a great sense of humor!
  • You are so easy and cozy to be with, one can bask in your presence.

Now you know how you can interest the guy you like in correspondence. But be careful if he has interests of another kind. For example, he will start to insist on candid photos.

Yes, that would certainly make him interested in you. But the consequences can be unpredictable. So, for now, it is worth limiting yourself to your own literary talents and feminine charm.

Letter to a beloved man

Your loved one is far away? You miss him so much that you can not find a place? You want so badly to tell about your feelings and what is happening to your soul right now? Write a letter to your only one! Reading your letter, he will have a great desire to rush to you and never part with you.

Give your beloved a letter in which tender words turn into gentle lines with kind and gentle meaning, with love and respect, with a rainbow of feelings and emotions…

How to write a love letter to a man to make him cry

Women are great to play on feelings, and the real masters will be able to touch a man even with an ordinary letter.

If your goal is to cause a man pain, regret or anger, it is better to leave this venture. No one knows the consequences of such feelings. And if your goal – to touch the elected one, to cause him to cry tears of joy and tenderness, you need to know a few tricks:

  • Let your words be sincere . False words do not get through nobody, try to speak from the heart, do not embellish and do not put pressure on pity.
  • Recall the best moments together. These moments include the birth of a child, the first kiss, your first meeting. Take nostalgia – remind them that you treasure tickets from your first trip to the movies, tell them how worried you were on a first date. If you already have children, tell the man that you are happy to have such a husband and a wonderful father around.
  • Give him the big news. If you have received a proposal of marriage, you can give an answer to it in a letter. The same applies to pregnancy – in a letter to your lover you can tell him that you’re about to become parents. The best recipe for a touching letter is sincerity, without contrived pity. The best recipe for a touching letter is a sincere and sincere letter to your beloved.

If your beloved is far away, and you miss him, the words themselves will splash out on paper. All you have to do is to take a pen and start.

Here are some examples for inspiration:

I’m so cold without you. So empty in the room… And I hate the bed and the room because you’re not around right now. I can’t say I hate the whole world, because there’s a lot of good and light in it. But you’re the dearest of all and everything. Dearer. You know that. I can’t help crying. It’s been a long time since I’ve seen you. Forever! I can’t wait for this eternity to end.

I remember the taste of your soft lips… They caressed my body so dreamily. I will never forget every second I spent with you. It is as beautiful as all our nights. Thank you for being with me. Yes, you are near, despite the distance. I see your eyes when I close mine. They’re so beautiful, so lovely

You are always there … You are in my heart, in my soul, in my dreams, in my thoughts, in my mind, in my life. I feel bad without you, sad, bored, longing. Come back soon. I miss you so much…

You’re far away now, but for me you’re there: in my heart, in my soul and in my thoughts. I miss you madly and cannot think of anything. But one must live in separation, and I try to be cheerful, waiting for you. I do not always succeed, in the evenings when I come home I allow myself to be sad, to let my emotions run wild. I look forward to your return, thoughts of it warm me every day.

My love, I miss you. I see the dawn with thoughts of you and remember how good we were together. Come back soon and I will never let you go again.

Forgive me, but I can’t help being sad away from you. I didn’t appreciate the time I spent with you so much before, but now I feel how hard it is to be alone. I remember every second I was with you. Waiting and longing. Yes, there is a lot to do and worry about, but all I can think about is you, how are you, is everything okay? Let me know about you.

Every 5 minutes I look at the phone and wait for your call, because I can not be without you for so long. Wherever I go, whatever I do, I always see your face, dimples on your cheeks, you smile so charmingly and get so funny angry. Call me soon and come back soon.

Being at a distance, it is necessary to support each other with warm words, to constantly remind of love, so that there was confidence that everything is still the same.

A touching confession to the boyfriend

Often it is difficult to talk directly about your feelings, but it is much easier to write:

Honey, I’m writing to you, because I do not dare to tell you in words. You were not just a man in my life, you have become the very life. I feel elated next to you and devastated when I am alone. I love you.

I don’t know why I’m writing this, I guess I don’t have the courage to say it directly. But I understand that I can no longer hide it. Before, I could not imagine that you would be more than a friend to me, but it happened that way.

I’m afraid to say it out loud, I know it’s all unexpected, but there’s no point in keeping silent any longer. Regardless of your decision, I tell you my love. I dream of a reciprocal response, but I don’t rush it, because everything is “like a snowball’s head.” True love doesn’t require reciprocity and if you don’t think it’s necessary to respond, I’d appreciate your honesty in this case. Love and hope.

Of course, it’s hard to advise in such a case how and what to write. But having decided to confess, do not hesitate to say everything directly, frankly.

Letter to your loved one in your own words.

My dear man! Yes, that’s how I want to call you. I know that it’s unexpected, but the feelings overwhelm me. You became not just close to me, I realize that I’ve been waiting for you. Having waited, I can say with confidence that I love you. I am not afraid to speak so openly even if you do not reciprocate. For those we love do not become our property, just know this.

You are far away, and I, left here alone, have realized what you mean to me. We used to live and not pay attention to it, the gray ordinary days went by one after another, in worries and bustle. But it is only now, after a long separation, that we truly appreciate each other. Every day when I go to bed, I imagine how I will run to meet you and what words I will say. And most importantly, I will never let you go for so long again.

Honey, thank you for decorating my life. Only you could make it really happy. I love you when you are angry and laughing and for me no matter what your mood is, I can always dispel your sorrows. You are the most wonderful person, no matter where you are, no matter what happens, I want to be there for you.

Words of appreciation and gratitude should sometimes be said by all people to their near and dear ones. It does not matter, verbally or in writing, the main thing is to convey the essence.

Beautiful letters to a beloved man

I didn’t think there was such a thing. I have only you in my heart right now. I had no idea that I wasn’t happy without you. I seemed to be doing all right. Although… I always felt like something was missing. Now I know what I was missing was you. Every moment with you proves that to me. I’m truly happy with you. The world is different with you. And now it’s clear to me that all my dreams are realizable. It’s not easy with me, though. I’m sorry if I ever hurt you. I’m just now learning to appreciate feelings. And only because of you, because of your sensitivity to me. I need you. I am yours alone.

When I wake up every morning, I think of you. Before I go to sleep, all my thoughts are about you, too. And even in my sleep I think of you. You are in my every thought. Every time I think it’s impossible to love more, but every day my feelings for you are stronger and stronger. I am just bursting with love for you. Thank you for being in my life.

I see you several times a day. But every time I fall in love with you all over again. I feel your breath, and all the troubles are forgotten. Your embrace warms my soul. Your care gives me a sense of security. You do so much for me. You mean so much to me. I am happy by your side.

I remember every moment spent with you. I’m happy that one day I paid attention to you. You’re the man who made me feel like a woman. It turns out that I am gentle and tender, vulnerable and frank, cheerful and in need of care, which I never noticed before. With you I feel like a little girl, and I want to remain a carefree child. I trust myself to you. And I’ll do anything to make you feel good around me.

Something is happening to me… This has never happened before. I accept you into my life. I accept you completely, just the way you are, all of you. I thank you for being a real man and making me a real woman around you. Thank you for the fact that I love you. Thank you for the fact that we are together. Thank you for being happy with you. And I want you to know – I’m ready to change for you, I treasure our relationship, I’m learning to be who you need me to be.

Short notes-recognitions to your beloved.

These notes can throw a neighbor, classmate, colleague, when you do not want long to talk, but only to convey the main message:

I can’t speak beautifully – know that there is a girl who cares about you.

I have a few words that are bursting out of me, I love you.

I look forward to seeing you like a miracle. I myself did not expect to fall so seriously in love.

Tell me, has this ever happened to you, when you see someone and realize that he is your person? It happened to me the other day when I saw you.

I can’t believe it myself, but I happen to be sad and lonely without you. When you are near me, happiness overwhelms me.

I am waiting to see you and I wonder if I really am in love. Apparently so, for a reason I am drawn to you like a magnet.

I love you … And it is these words I am ready to repeat to you constantly. Would you like that? I’ll write them all over my body?

I’m crazy about you. And sometimes I can’t believe I deserve to be as happy as you are. Didn’t you ever think that you could be someone else’s happiness? You can do anything… You’re my ideal. There are no flaws in you.

Would you like me to spread, as a luxurious carpet, the whole sky beneath your feet? Would you like me to make the earth yours? I know you don’t want it. I believe you need me. I never thought for a moment to doubt you. After all, a relationship is the “sweetness of trust.” I have always trusted you, and I always will.

Forgive my jealousy: I fear you will be stolen from me. Forgive my rudeness: I am a devil with the appearance of an angel. Forgive the truth: it is bitter, but it breathes pure conscience. Forgive the misunderstanding: everyone has it…

I can see you even in the palm of my hand, because, on it, I often put your picture to absorb your image with my eyes, eyes and soul. I want to bring your picture to life… I’m sorry, I can’t say otherwise. I miss you…

You are my dearest person. I feel the lingering days crawling away from you. Who invented all these distances? Have those who made them up never experienced the feeling of true love?

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