What to do with a man in bed?

“Man’s G-spot” and 18 more unforgettable ways to caress his dick with your hand

Some women mistakenly believe that men don’t like foreplay. If that’s what you used to think too, and you want to fix it, but you don’t know how – no problem! We explain how to please a man with his hands, so he in return arranged you an unforgettable night of love.

Men love foreplay gentle caresses, passing in an active stimulation of the genitals. In the first place for them – physical satisfaction. And to get it, it is important to know how to make a man pleasant and unusual hands. Believe me, with the right actions, he will return to you again and again for a new dose of pleasure. And in gratitude, during lovemaking, will put out to the full, so that you remain as satisfied as possible.

Preparing for the caresses

Start with a gentle erotic massage on the whole body. Gentle, smooth stroking movements beloved shoulders, neck, back and belly, accompanying this gentle kisses. Gradually descend downward. Do not hurry to go straight to the main thing – massage the thighs, especially on the inner side – there is one of the most sensitive areas of the male body. When you understand that he is warmed up enough, proceed directly to the case.

How to make a man pleasant with your hands: special techniques

How to caress the penis with your hand? The win-win option is the usual gentle sliding of the hand along the shaft. But if you want to add spice, give your man new unusual sensations – use the following techniques.

Soft glide. No, that’s not the name of a new razor for women. It’s where to start your chiropractic sex session. Lightly slide your palm up and down its “joystick” to tone it down. Pianist. Lightly drum your fingertips on the underside of the penis, moving up and down, like on the piano keys. So you’ll wake up his nerve endings and cause a rush of blood – read: arousal. Shaking. Gently squeeze the base and midsection of your penis in a pulsating motion, lightly pressing the skin against the underside of your penis. Love Conveyor. By this time, your lover is probably properly aroused, so you can squeeze his dignity a little harder. Use both hands, one after the other: the right hand is already sliding along the penis to the base, and the left hand just starts the downward movement, passing the head. Don’t stop, and he will get the feeling that he is being caressed by not two but a dozen hands at the same time. Sausage in Dough. The classic version: wrap all your fingers around his dick and move it up and down. Then change your technique: turn your hand around. If your thumb was facing the head, now turn your hand so it’s closer to the base. It’s a completely different sensation. Lamb. Wrap your thumb and index finger around his penis in a ring (as if showing: OK!) and move them in an already familiar motion, touching the penis with just those two fingers. “Wipers.” This technique is similar to “Sausage in Dough,” but with one correction. Each time you reach the head, flip your hand so that your thumb is on the other side of the penis: then you run it over the frenulum, then the other four fingers. It’s like your hand is a windshield wiper, sweeping away raindrops from one side to the other. Homemade “erection ring.” Tightly wrap two fingers around the base of your penis and hold. With the other hand, continue the usual stimulation. Lid. Since the head is the most sensitive part, give it special attention. Rotate your hand, sliding it over the head, as if you were unscrewing the cap from a bottle. Twist and rock and roll. Alternate normal back and forth motions with your hand and rotating motions with your hand. Male G-spot . The perineum (the area between the scrotum and the anus) is a strong erogenous zone. Rhythmically press on this point, like a button. Apple on a plate. One hand caressing his dick, gently roll his testicles on the palm of the other. Some guys like it when the partner lightly pulls the skin of the scrotum. Look wider. Don’t fixate only on his intimate parts. The inner thighs, lower abdomen, buttocks are also full of nerve endings. Stroke them, knead them, massage them with your fingertips – this will increase the sensations. Headband. Cover the head with your open palm. Stroke the head with your fingers, twirl them, as if you were polishing the ball of a doorknob. From the service entrance. If your partner doesn’t mind, with the finger of your free hand, try fondling his anus. Running in circles. The position in which you caress a man with your hand determines the nuances of his sensations. So try to diversify the position: then sit in front of him, then come from behind and embrace his back. Partner. Take his hand and place it on top of yours. He’ll be able to feel everything you’re doing, too-and that will turn him on even more. Or he can guide you, showing you how much more force and speed he feels comfortable with. And vice versa: put his hand on his own cock and cover it with your palm. Let him show you how he does it himself, and you watch and remember. No language barriers.

A good hand job is not without at least a little bit of oral sex. Squeeze his cock by rotating your tongue over the head, or act with your mouth as an extension of your hand and move them in unison. Tirelessly. To keep your hand from getting tired, use this trick. Make several movements, holding your wrist motionless and moving only your fist. Then begin to move the hand, keeping the wrist straight.

How do you finish the hand caresses?

When you feel that he is close to orgasm, keep the same pace and squeeze your cock with the same force. Don’t change anything! And don’t quit your activity as soon as he starts to cum. An orgasm lasts a few seconds, and you don’t have to stop in those seconds. Keep going until you see that he has experienced pleasure to the end.

1. What shouldn’t you do?
2. Don’t give his dignity funny or derogatory nicknames. “Wormy,” “wiener,” “baby” – blacklisted, definitely.
3. Control the power of the caresses. Many men complain that the partner painfully squeezes, bites or pinches the penis, discouraging all desire for oral caresses. This is not a manifestation of passion, but a complete fiasco.

Pay attention not only to the head of the penis. Yes, it is the most sensitive, but men have other erogenous zones. It also happens that a girl uses only her tongue, licking the head like ice cream. By itself, this kind of caressing will not lead to orgasm. It can be used except as a supplement.

Whatever technique you have chosen, the main thing to remember – these activities should bring pleasure to you. Men are very excited when a woman shows the initiative and enjoys the experience. Do not be shy to experiment and try something new – your man will only be grateful.

How to surprise a man in bed – the best techniques and poses

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Expert – Victoria Fomina.

Sexologist of the highest category, psychiatrist and psychotherapist. I have been working as a sexologist for over 10 years. I help couples to solve problems in sexuality.

Sexual life is very important in a romantic relationship. However, a simple “up and down” for good sex is not enough. And it doesn’t surprise anyone. It is not necessary to make the intercourse a firework of different positions with dozens of sex toys. But to do some things a little differently than usual, is necessary. Here’s how you can amaze your man in bed.

23 ways to surprise him in bed

Surprising a man in bed is not as difficult as it seems. Here are a few tips that will help you give him an unforgettable pleasure:

• Men’s arousal is highly dependent on and even controlled by visual stimuli. Men want to see their partner’s breasts bobbing up and down during sex, the way she tilts her head back in pleasure and bites her lip. Yes, and the picture when the penis disappears between the shaking buttocks of a woman, incredibly sexy. So put all your complexes aside and please your partner with the hot view of your horny body. Do not turn off the light!

Touch yourself

• Caress yourself during intercourse, touch your breasts and stimulate your clitoris. Men like to watch a woman pleasuring herself. First, it turns them on a lot. Secondly, they get a visual idea of exactly what kind of touch you like.

Focus on his erogenous zones

• Examine your partner’s body for his erogenous zones. In addition to his penis there are many other sensitive areas. You can focus all your attention on them or leave them for last to arouse his desire even more.

Use your mouth.

• The obvious fact is that men love a blow job. They like it when your partner is active and does not have to beg or plead with them to perform oral sex. So indulge your lover with his mouth, and not only because he had a birthday or you lost a bet.

Have a good time not just in bed.

• Although sex on the bed in the bedroom has its place, but over time it can become trivial and predictable. Sometimes you still need a change of scenery to keep the passion at an appropriate level. If you made love on the kitchen table today, try to find a suitable place somewhere outdoors tomorrow or rent a hotel for the night (or a couple of hours).

Slow down a little.

• Your body naturally moves faster when you’re engrossed in the process, or, conversely, trying to finish the act sooner. Slow movements, however, can be much more satisfying because they allow you to feel each moment better. Try slowing down a bit during penetrative or oral sex and teasing your partner, then give full throttle.

Turn on your acting skills.

Regular monotonous intercourse can get boring quickly, which is one reason why role-playing is so effective. In addition to sex with the woman you love, your man can also sometimes make love to a sexy “maid,” a strict “teacher,” or a caring “nurse.”

• Activating the fantasy mode involuntarily increases levels of dopamine, the main arousal hormone, and thus increases feelings of affection. So, faced in bed with a brave “cop” or a cheeky “schoolboy,” the partners will feel closer to each other because they have tried something new in bed.

Do not forget about foreplay.

• As a rule, men don’t need as much time to get aroused as women do. However, anticipation can heighten the sensation of sex. Send him some hot messages or erotic photos, give him a full body massage or watch porn together.

Take him hostage.

• Another great option to raise the temperature in the bedroom is to take your man hostage. Tie him to the bed and tease him a little before you start the main act. Not only will this surprise and drive him crazy, but it will also make him want more.

Invite him in the shower.

Nothing gets a man more excited than the naked body of the girl he loves with foam running down it. Enjoy together a warm bath or take a joint shower to get in the mood.

• Still, men are visual creatures. That is, they are aroused by what they see. If you want to pleasantly surprise him, slowly and seductively suck his fingers, looking into his eyes. This will be an unusual start to your sexual encounter.

Dirty talk.

• Dirty talk is one of the effective ways to sexually arouse your partner and turn him into a beast in bed. Tell him how much you want him and what he needs to do. You don’t have to fake moan like a porn star, but always give him a feedback so he knows he’s doing a good job and you’re enjoying the process.

Identify the dominant

Many couples often become intimate at the same time of night, in the same place and in the same position. If your partner doesn’t take any active steps to change your sex life, it doesn’t mean he wouldn’t like it. Just take matters into your own hands. Get one of his ties, ask him to tie you up, and let him do whatever he wants with you. Trust me, he’ll love it.

However, some men prefer a woman to dominate during sex. Ask your partner if he is willing to submit. If so, take the lead in your bed.

• Men like to experiment in bed, and many of them would like to try something new. But some are afraid to voice their desires for fear of offending their partner. One of these fantasies is anal sex. Not all women are ready to practice it. But if you do not mind experimenting with anal and you think that your lover would like it too, then offer him to diversify your intimate life with another kind of sex.

Linger on the sensitive spots

• The penis head is the most sensitive point on a man’s body, so it’s worth paying special attention to it. Indulge it with light tongue movements, but try to handle it carefully so as not to accidentally interfere with arousal.

Satisfy his sexual fantasies

Every man has his own sexual fantasies. Just as no two women are exactly the same with the same desires, and no two men with the same erotic fantasies. So it’s worth asking your partner about this. If you have a healthy relationship, he will be happy to open up to you. Once you know his sexual desire, try to translate it into reality. You may have to dress up as a nurse, dance a striptease for him or fondle his anus.

No, you do not have to wear a skirt that is too short or a dress with a deep cleavage. Wear clothes that make you feel sexy. It can be a business suit or an oversized sweatshirt. Do not forget about the beautiful lingerie. Often it boosts a woman’s self-confidence, even if worn over simple jeans and a T-shirt. Still, the main thing is not the clothes, but the mood that you emit.

• By the way, the message that you bought new underwear can tease a man and give him the right mood for the evening, because he will have to wait to see it.

Use toys.

• If you think that sex toys are only needed to brighten up a lonely evening, you’re wrong. There are plenty of toys designed for both partners. You can incorporate them into your sex life to give each other pleasure or let him watch you spoil yourself with a vibrator.

Anal stimulation.

The anal area is undeservedly shunned by many men. Some are just embarrassed to ask to have a finger shoved up their rear hole, others consider it the province of gays, and some don’t even know what pleasure anal stimulation can bring. The whole point is that through the rectum it is easy to stimulate the prostate, the prostate gland, which is directly connected to the penis. When you play with this organ, you massage the internal nerve endings, which causes a very pleasant sensation. So pleasurable that the man can experience an unforgettable orgasm.

• You can’t just put your finger in the anus! Be sure to ask your partner’s permission and prepare for this delicate process together.

Get to know the kamasutra

• How can you pleasantly surprise a man in bed if you know nothing about the kamasutra? The Indian art of love offers a lot of variety, lust and fun. Add a new impetus to your sex life with positions from the kama sutra.

Let him wait.

• If you want a man to want you even more, don’t give him everything all at once. Let his appetite run wild for a while. For example, when you in a fit of passion pounced on each other, do not immediately proceed to the caresses of his private parts. Tease him until he himself does not ask for it.

Create the right atmosphere

• Women aren’t the only ones who love a romantic atmosphere. Many men don’t mind making love under sexy music with dim lights from scented candles either.

Nothing should not distract.