If a man really loves, how he behaves.
Being in a relationship, women unwittingly wonder if a man loves for real, how he behaves. Each person is different, so it is impossible to prescribe a single pattern of behavior to all.
The behavior of a man in love
Love does not depend on gender. The common belief that the representatives of the stronger sex do not have tender feelings, but only use women, looking for a cook, housekeeper, free mistresses of love, etc., is wrong. By studying the psychology of emotions, it will be easier to understand the behavior of a man in love.
First of all, it is necessary to take into account:
- Environmental conditions (marital status, income level, professional activity).
- The level of upbringing, the attitudes associated with the manifestation of feelings. Some, not embarrassed, can say beautiful words, while others keep everything inside themselves, not daring to say it out loud. But this does not mean that such a man does not love his chosen one.
- Character and nervous system features – personality type, habits.
- The intellectual level of development.
There is no clear line of behavior of a man in love. Much also depends on the behavior of the woman, on what exactly she invests in this understanding. Someone values attention, care and gifts, someone the freedom of personal space.
Classifying love is difficult, but for some signs you can tell that a man has deep feelings:
- Showing care, genuine interest in the woman – how the day went, whether she is tired, whether there are problems of domestic or financial nature. If there are any, he will certainly make attempts to solve them by making life more comfortable for the beloved.
- Loyalty and Faithfulness – even if a couple has known each other not very long, he will not allow the thought of seeking relationship on the side, will not call his ex, stop questionable communication, trying to spend every moment of free time with the one whom he has the most sincere feelings for.
- Spiritual and material support – when absolutely nothing is spared for your beloved, neither money (even if it’s the last) nor time.
- Genuine interest – he will want to know as much as possible about her: her tastes and preferences, hobbies, attitude toward life and other aspects. This will give him the opportunity to make a woman happy, to present positive emotions and to experience them himself, seeing her smile.
- Kindness – a loving man will never allow himself to “hit” even with a word, not to mention abuse, even if the woman will be wrong.
Manifestation of aggression can be solely to protect his beloved. For example, if someone offends her or tries to inflict bodily harm.
Signs of attention indicating that he loves
Among the many ways to show ardent feelings are dominated by attempts to get her attention. The main “weapon” in this struggle a man chooses based on the features of his character, habits, intelligence and social circle.
Among the modern means:
- Adding to friends on social networks, exchanging mobile numbers to be able to correspond, audio and video call, exchange voice messages through messengers. Even if he has very little information, he will start looking for it on the Internet. If there is no opportunity to exchange contacts in person, the man will find her number and address through mutual friends or colleagues.
- Trying to get into her social circle, to be able to meet and communicate more often. For example, to enroll in a club, section or pool, which she regularly attends.
- Aspiring to unobtrusively appear where she is, offer her a ride – as if by the way, making it clear that the girl is completely obligated to nothing.
- If she has a pet, take care of it, buy vitamins or treat a bag of food, making it look as if he took his cat, he really liked it, and decided to make her four-legged friend feel good.
These are just a small part of the signs that will help you determine how a man behaves if he truly loves.
Many men prefer not to talk about their feelings. The most accurate way to answer the question of interest, whether he loves or not, will help the body language. The main signs that confirm sympathy include:
- Staring, directed towards the girl, if you find yourself in the same company;
- When meeting with the eyes – dilation of the pupils;
- a sincere smile, slight embarrassment, which gives himself away with a blush on the cheeks;
- Desire to touch the object of lust – to accidentally catch her elbow, to correct her hair, etc.
Such behavior proves better than eloquent words that a man is in love with her.
Feelings of a man in love
Representatives of the stronger sex no less than women need love, affection and care, just not all are able and feel the need to show it. In most cases, people in love vividly express their emotions in the form of excitement, tension, happiness and sadness. Realizing that he has no chance for reciprocity, the man is very stressed. Psychologists have compiled a list of feelings that men experience when they are in love:
- Interest in absolutely everything about her life;
- Attraction – he is constantly attracted to her, like a magnet, and he can not do anything about it;
- Happiness and euphoria, when feelings are mutual, the state of flight.
A man in love wants intimacy, and this is quite normal. Representatives of the fair sex should not be afraid of such a manifestation of feelings, thinking that he needs only a bed. Love and intimacy are inseparable.
Men’s perception of love
The behavior of a man in love changes beyond recognition. This is associated with a storm of emotions that cover him. Relatives and friends notice these changes, this fact does not escape the attention of girls. Psychologists have distinguished several stages in the manifestation of man’s love:
- Attracting attention to his own person – if the object of adoration pays attention, it is always nice. Therefore, guys make all sorts of steps towards the girl. Flowers, gifts – in a word, everything to win her favor.
- The desire to own the girl. Romantic relationships begin with the candy-bouquet period, when you want to spend as much time as possible with your beloved.
- A feeling of peacefulness. When he has gained her affection, attention, gifts and phone calls become less. He understands that she is already with him, they feel good and comfortable together, his emotions subside and the man calms down, gradually returning to the normal rhythm of life.
Such behavior alarms the fair sex, and they begin to think that they are no longer loved. More often than not everything is not so sad, it is just another stage of the relationship.
Life can not consist of a solid holiday. Normal everyday life, affairs and worries have not been canceled. Man also tend to get tired at work. You just need to give him a break, and not to demand too much attention to his person.
Before you jump to conclusions, you should observe how he behaves. If a man, as before, really loves – he will devote all his free time to his woman, and not spend his leisure time on the side.
- It is quite simple to find out whether a man loves or not – his behavior speaks for itself. Experiencing sincere feelings for a woman, a representative of the stronger sex will always be interested in her and everything that happens in her life, trying to solve all problems, surrounding her with care and attention.
- There is no clear line of behavior of a man in love. A woman’s actions are also an important factor in the development of a relationship. Some prefer the freedom of personal space, others prefer care, attention and gifts, and for some, the most important thing – that he was there.
- If a man does not spread his feelings, it does not mean that he does not love. Body language (light touch, stare, smile, dilated pupils, a blush on the cheeks) will speak for him.
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Top 25 things men do for the woman they love
Sometimes it’s hard for us to figure out what’s going on in men’s heads. They’re not as prone to vivid emotions and feelings as we are. They are not always wasted in words of love. But, you can tell the sincerity of a man’s feelings by his actions. Let’s go into more detail on this point.
What loving men do for their beloved
Men, by their very nature, are simple creatures. They do not speak loud phrases, rarely do romantic actions. But, you can tell the sincerity of your feelings by the actions that a young man will perform only for the woman he loves.
- Listens only to the woman he loves.
A man will sincerely listen only to the girl he loves. He will not pretend to listen. Actually show interest in your words. Try to understand what you are telling him. During the conversation he will show maximum attention.
- Listen to your advice.
When a man loves you, he will listen to your advice. If he doesn’t take your opinion to action, he won’t refute it. When he has a different view of the situation, he will try to convey his opinion to you, explain it rationally.
- He will be willing to change his mind.
If a man does not love a woman, he will appear to her as a stubborn and categorical person who will not change his plans because of your request. This shows a lack of respect and feelings.
When a man loves, he respects your opinion. If he finds it difficult to change his plans, he will offer you a compromise. Of course, you won’t always be able to find an agreement, but he will show a desire for one.
If a man argues with you, he cares about you. He is willing to enter into a discussion with you. This shows that he cares. A man who loves you doesn’t walk away with a problem, but is willing to solve it.
A healthy argument is a sign of his desire to be with you, a willingness to work on the relationship. Of course, if the argument turns to aggression, that is a sign of the wrong situation. You either have an abuser in front of you or you are incompatible.
A man will only show his willingness to defend you if he truly loves you. He will stand up for you in front of your family, friends. He won’t let them hurt you. Because it’s hard for him to bear.
And a man will fight for you on instinct. He won’t think twice about it.
How does a man’s love work?
- Shows an interest in your accomplishments.
A man doesn’t think in terms of emotions. What matters to him is the result. He takes your achievements as his own. It’s as if he is filled with happiness when you do something on high, when some good things happen to you.
- Ready to meet your parents.
If a man loves you, he will show his willingness to meet your parents, he is not afraid to start a family with you. When you start talking to the guy correctly about marriage registration, and he no less correctly avoid the topic, you shouldn’t think that he is serious.
- Introduce you to his loved ones.
A loving man will introduce you to his friends, relatives. With every possible way to show that you belong to him: take your hand, hold your arm, whispering words of love in your ear.
- Do not spare money on you.
If a man loves you, he will want to spend time with you, to show attention. In this case, the issue of money will take second place. He will not wonder how much this or that thing costs. If he has money, he will buy it for you.
- Will not pay attention to other women.
A man who loves you will not jeopardize your relationship for the sake of a fling. He won’t even pay attention to other women, let alone engage in conversation or correspondence with them. He respects your feelings.
- He’s willing to put up with you.
Only a loving man is willing to tolerate a woman’s mood swings. He will calmly react to your tantrums, tears, try to find out what the reason is. Learn your emotions. Will be interested in your mood, know the right ways to lift it.
- Cares about your comfort.
If a man loves you, it’s important for him to make you as comfortable as possible. He does not have to ask long to bring you a pillow, a glass of water, rearrange the furniture to your liking. Just as long as you are satisfied.
- Jealous of you to other men.
He will feel jealous if you communicate with other men. At the same time, he will not forbid you to do so. But during the conversation, the chosen one will talk about his feelings, rather than alienate you, in any way to avoid such a situation.
- Will show his vulnerability.
If a man loves you, he will not be afraid to show you their weaknesses. He will let you into his heart. Reveal his secrets, share his emotions. Tells you about his worries and fears.
- Won’t want to break off a relationship with you.
No matter how difficult the situation is, if a man loves, he won’t be able to decide to break up. He will decide to deal with the problem. He won’t jump on you with accusations. Will find a way to resolve the issue.
- Discusses plans for the future with you.
If a man loves you, he sees a future with you. He cares about your opinion. Before he makes a decision, he gets to know your perspective on the situation. It’s important for him to know what you really think.
- He will accept you in any way he chooses.
Loving man does not care what you have clothes, musical preferences, the presence or absence of cooking skills. If he is constantly criticizing you, it shows a lack of love. For a man in love you are always original, harmonious.
- Sees always your beauty.
Each of us has bad times. If a man loves you, you are always beautiful for him. And it does not matter if you have herpes or pimples in the most prominent place. He does not care about your appearance.
- You are his first priority.
If a man loves you, you are his priority. He respects you and your opinion. You are always the only one in first place. A young man’s interests come only after yours.
- Always makes time for you.
Time is the most valuable resource. If a man loves you, he will always make time for you. Even in the busiest schedule, he will squeeze an appointment with you. He strives to spend time with you every day, at least half an hour, but he will give you time.
- He fights for his love.
When a man loves, he is not interested in the opinion of others about you. He is ready to fight with the whole world for his love for you. He is afraid of losing you. Ready to make any sacrifice, just so you would be with him.
- Try to include you in their interests.
If a man loves you, he will try to make you have more interests in common. He will take you to soccer, hockey, hiking, to meet with friends.
- He will take care of your loved ones.
If a man loves, he will show concern not only for you, but also for your loved ones. He will offer to take your mom to the hospital, ask how your dad is doing. He’s willing to take any part in your life.
- Doesn’t seek to remake you.
When a man loves you, he values you along with your imperfections. He doesn’t care that you have an imperfect waistline, what your nose is like. He likes your creases on your belly. He’s amused by the way you look in the morning.
- Respects your freedom.
A man who loves you does not seek to take away your freedom. He does not erase personal boundaries. He lets you go out with your girlfriends. Will not interfere with your development as a professional, as a person.
If a man loves you, you will know it by his actions. It does not require any big words. Especially because men’s love is not manifested in glaring phrases, but simple actions.