Jealousy of my ex-husband

Jealous of my ex-husband. Get my mind right!

Good afternoon everyone, I am 27 years old, divorced my husband two years ago. We have a daughter. We divorced because he lied a lot, abused alcohol. there were a lot of faults, and I decided it was better to divorce him. By the way, after my divorce, things went well for me – a good job, good wages, and the opposite is true for him. All these two years he constantly wanted to make up, said he loved me madly, etc. Of course, he had some one-time women, but no permanent ones. And then recently I found out that he was in a serious relationship with a woman, she was a couple of years older than him, a generally positive woman. They live together. And I can’t find my place. In my mind I understand that I don’t need him in general, he has caused me only problems in recent years, and as a man he sucks, to put it mildly, but I am still irritated by this whole situation. I can’t help it. The last time he came to see my daughter, I asked him point-blank if he loved me. He said “of course I do,” but there was no reaction, so he just blurted it out. And I do not want to live with him anymore, of course, I just want him to keep running after me. Here such a fool. How do I let go of this situation, girls?

My husband has the same ex, even though he’s married. Can’t get over the fact that she was unloved and crossed out a long time ago. Well let them choke on their bile.

You don’t want to live with him, don’t give him a hard time.

rude, but true. I know I’m really acting like *****.

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Get on with your life. Otherwise envy will ruin you specifically.

You have to let go. It’s a matter of time, it erases memories.

You have to let go. It’s a matter of time, it erases memories.

Yeah, you’re right. We didn’t talk for months, and I didn’t even think about him. I didn’t care at all for two years until I found out he was serious. That’s the kind of dog in the hay.

You just don’t want him to be happy without you, it’s not jealousy. think about how unlucky that woman is.)

We have an ex like that too. While I lived with her I was always bad, I built a house not there and not like that, I bought a wrong car, I want Lexus, I bought it, I do not want to work myself, but you ruined my life because I am sitting at home and do not work for 12 years, I am lazy to go to fitness and it is your fault that I weigh 85 kg, I did not marry you, I would have done better if I had married Fyodor at home on your nourishment, I used your car to go to Dabarishki, but it’s our fault for not paying attention to me, I want an apartment in the center of maaasskva, and the house in the suburbs that you built will be our dacha. You don’t have that kind of money? It means you have a useless job if you don’t have any. Von Fedya lives in Serebryany Bor! And if you don’t like something, find a better one. You found it. Now he’s pouring venom all over his suburbs. She hates everyone and everything. She’s already blue in the face. Also with the stupid still thinks that he loves her) sms wrote in vase stupidly at night. You still love me. Of course he does! And with another woman just so lives, poor guy, out of despair.

We have an ex-girlfriend like that, too. While I lived with her I was always bad, I built a house in the wrong place and in the wrong way, I bought the wrong car, I want a Lexus, I bought one, I do not want to work myself, but you ruined my life by keeping me at home and not working for 12 years, I am lazy to go to fitness and it is your fault that I weigh 85 kg, I did not marry you, I would have done better if I had married Fyodor at home on your nourishment, I used your car to go to Dabarishki, but it’s our fault for not paying attention to me, I want an apartment in the center of maaasskva, and the house in the suburbs that you built will be our dacha. You don’t have that kind of money? It means you have a useless job if you don’t have any. Von Fedya lives in Serebryany Bor! And if you don’t like something, find a better one. You found it. Now he’s pouring venom all over his suburbs. She hates everyone and everything. She’s already blue in the face. She still thinks that he loves her) sms wrote in vase at night. Do you still love me? Of course he does! And he’s just living with another woman, poor guy, out of despair.

We have an ex like that too. While I lived with her I was always bad, I built a house not there and not like that, I bought a wrong car, I want Lexus, I bought it, I do not want to work myself, but you ruined my life because I am sitting at home and do not work for 12 years, I am lazy to go to fitness and it is your fault that I weigh 85 kg, I did not marry you, I would have done better if I had married Fyodor at home on your nourishment, I used your car to go to Dabarishki, but it’s our fault for not paying attention to me, I want an apartment in the center of maaasskva, and the house in the suburbs that you built will be our dacha. You don’t have that kind of money? It means you have a useless job if you don’t have any. Von Fedya lives in Serebryany Bor! And if you don’t like something, find a better one. You found it. Now he’s pouring venom all over his suburbs. She hates everyone and everything. She’s already blue in the face. Also with the stupid still thinks that he loves her) sms wrote in vase stupidly at night. You still love me. Of course he does! And with another woman just so lives, poor guy, out of despair.

Yes, there are such people. My husband does not communicate with his former roommate and blocked everywhere so she would not bother.

Husband’s correspondence

A man came back from his mistress and was going to leave her again

I leave the man because of his children!

Jealous of my husband for my ex-wife and child

My ex-husband got married and it pisses me off

There are no ex-husbands and ex-wives if you have children in the marriage. It’s a lifelong bond.

There are no ex-husbands and ex-wives if you have children in the marriage. It’s a lifelong bond.

So it’s a one-child parent bond. )))) what do ex-husbands and ex-wives have to do with it?

There are no ex-husbands and ex-wives if you have children in the marriage. It’s a lifelong bond.

Not true.I for example cut all ties with the BM and the children since the breakup he has not seen.No relationship with him no god forbid.I blocked everywhere simkom changed and isolated.Children raise myself.In the same river as they say do not enter twice.Who he lives / sleeps / who and n ***** t me does not matter.The main thing for me that not touched us.me and my children. I stepped over and that’s it.

So it’s a one-child parent bond. )))) what do ex-husbands and ex-wives have to do with it?

As I understand for example and how in the place of the BM to approach the child bypassing the mother? The mother is everything.She raises is responsible and responsible for the child. Another thing if there is a teenager and eili-lived for many years, and lived to this day. And if the child is six months old? How to bypass the mother? Or the child is 6 years old? Here, if the mother wants to have a relationship. And no so no, can break the thread forever.

We have an ex-girlfriend like that, too. While I lived with her I was always bad, I built a house in the wrong place and in the wrong way, I bought the wrong car, I want a Lexus, I bought one, I do not want to work myself, but you ruined my life by keeping me at home and not working for 12 years, I am lazy to go to fitness and it is your fault that I weigh 85 kg, I did not marry you, I would have done better if I had married Fyodor at home on your nourishment, I used your car to go to Dabarishki, but it’s our fault for not paying attention to me, I want an apartment in the center of maaasskva, and the house in the suburbs that you built will be our dacha. You don’t have that kind of money? It means you have a useless job if you don’t have any. Von Fedya lives in Serebryany Bor! And if you don’t like something, find a better one. You found it. Now he’s pouring venom all over his suburbs. She hates everyone and everything. She’s already blue in the face. She still thinks that he loves her) sms wrote in vase at night. Do you still love me? Of course he does! And he’s just living with another woman, poor guy, out of despair.

Why do you know when I read these things or hear them I think people are deceiving a little.Namely because life moves forward.Tell me why women clinging to her ex like that if you can find a new man, build a new relationship, depending on what she wants.The past is gone, the former is often as dead.Going back there is a road to nowhere.Will a young healthy woman pining for a former when the whole life ahead? Well, maybe it’s just a period that will pass, and not much time has passed since the breakup.

“Jealous of the ex”: what to do with it

Where does jealousy of your ex-boyfriend come from, if everything is already over? In fact, many girls face this problem regardless of whether they have found a new partner or not. Why? Let’s understand the main causes of jealousy to an ex-boyfriend and discuss – what to do with this feeling.

“Jealous of an ex-boyfriend”: what is the reason

The first question you need to ask yourself – why can’t I get over my ex-boyfriend? If there is jealousy, it means that you never let him go. Emotionally, you are still connected to this man. This happens even when your relationship with your ex was not happy, and he is far from a prince on a white horse. This is often a co-dependent relationship, where instead of love:

  • A sense of possessiveness;
  • unhealthy attachment; and total control.

When such a relationship collapses, the girl has a feeling of emptiness, guilt, and resentment. And the main reason for jealousy of your ex-husband or boyfriend lies precisely in these resentments, understatement, in the hopes that you will ever be together again. Although the initiator of the breakup is usually the girl herself.

But sometimes a woman acts like a dog in the hay. She understands that she does not need her ex for nothing, but she does not want to give him up. She may already be in a relationship with another man, and yet she is still jealous of her ex-girlfriend or wife. Again – hasn’t let go, thinks the ex-boyfriend is her property. Do you have that feeling? Share in the comments, all responses are anonymous.

If the initiator of the breakup was a man, the woman just hard to accept the new reality, plus her feelings are not extinguished. Self-esteem falls, there is a question: why is she better than me? And accordingly jealousy.

What to do with jealousy of her ex?

So, if you’re jealous of an ex-boyfriend, it’s worth turning over that page of your life and letting the man go. Then the jealousy will disappear. Constantly hoping to restore the relationship, to live in the past, to consider the ex as your property – it’s a dead end. Yes, your ex may want to come back, but then decide for yourself, do you really need it?

Shift the focus of attention on self-development, work on your mistakes. You can go to a psychologist. Sometimes you even need to work through the reason for the breakup, to improve your self-esteem, to look deeply into yourself. After all, from what torments jealousy, not only of an ex-boyfriend, but in general? Why does this feeling cause so much suffering? From insecurity, the inability to be happy without a man, from the inner emptiness. And this is often a work with childhood traumas, own complexes, fears.

What can you do right now?

Exclude all contact with your ex, including social networks. If you are not bound by any obligations, of course. If they do, communicate only about the case, and not watch someone else’s happiness, monitoring the page daily ex.

Thank your ex-boyfriend for the experience and forgive him for all the hard feelings.

Try to quickly forget this man. Live your life to the fullest without looking back on the past. How to do this read in the section of our official website TC Pavel Rakova “Life after a breakup.” There is a lot of useful information here.

If you still find it hard to cope with jealousy, your own complexes, you want help from a mentor – come to my online course “Secrets of Women’s Happiness”. You will see the typical female mistakes in relationships, let go of your former man and start a new life. You will be able to build a happy relationship not on feelings of possessiveness, but on mutual love and respect.

Girls, what prevents you from letting go of an ex-male? Share in the comments, I remind you that answers are anonymous.

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