If a man says native: parsing from all angles

What does it mean when a man calls you native?

My beloved man calls me my own. What does it mean? Have any of you ever been called that? I have the first man who calls me that! Share. very interesting. what about you?

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Of all the things you described, analyze, I can be 100% sure of only one thing: this man had a deep mental trauma, not necessarily a love trauma, or lives in a deep depression for quite a long time, in fact he is lonely. But rush to feel sorry for him! It may cost you dearly! life is NOT easy with such people.

It’s probably the same as sunshine, kitty, bunny, and the rest of the zoo. I would be less hung up on these nonsense. Names and let him call you, if you are not too disturbed, of course.

I, too, sometimes calls me, dear, I liked it until I realized that there was another bad habit, because he called my friend native, when she was proving something. Now I am shaking from this word.

Remember, dear ladies: the most sincere attitude and love is hidden behind the address by name. Just accept it as a fact. All the za’i, fish, pussy, kinfolk and other sweet nonsense – an indicator of lack of depth of feeling, and even the complete absence of such.

About addressing someone by his last name is muimu nonsense, speaks more about the lack of respect for the person. At school, all the people who are nothing to you called by the last name. I think it should be quite pleasant to be called by your first name, if not every time, of course.

54,you have clearly exaggerated about surnames, I called many people by their last names at school…and this is a demonstration of feelings, according to you? and a close person by their last name, it turns out to be normal? When she calls him by his surname (or vice versa, he calls her), then a clear impression of a henchman emerges…and in general, it is not nice.

54 It’s like in Pokrovskie Vorota, right?: “Khobotov! Follow me!”

Bullshit about surnames.

I have an acquaintance who calls everyone by their family names he probably forgets)))

I typed the same question on the Internet to read the answer. I have a lover, we have been dating for a long time, he is younger than me, but we look the same age. He is very stingy with affectionate words, very cautious in expressions, he calls me a baby, a kitten (it flies out sometimes). In his eyes you can see that we are not only a passion between us, we are happy together, and then he left for a month, and suddenly he calls, and so long talking, all the questions, his voice soft gentle, and. calls me – my dear, I almost had a heart of happiness did not fly out … What would it mean. By the way, he does not drink or smoke, he’s a boxer and EMERCOM officer.

What are you all talking about? Confusion and confusion. If you get mixed up all your life, it’s your fault. HE LOVES YOU, ALINA, THAT’S ALL)))

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Now everything is fine. after I started to tell men the price.

Does it mean that the man’s family didn’t like me?

What does it mean when a girl calls you honey?

Question for men: what does it mean to differentiate between love and sex?

He doesn’t call me anything at all.

my husband calls me *** dickhead, affectionately dickhead. he didn’t know my name at all, so he also forgot it. He might as well call me shit.

My husband calls me a foxy, I like to fiddle with my fingers. I call him my hairy bear or my empty-headed son. His head is empty, he grew a cabbage and a pickle and no one eats him.Husband is like a child: you have to feed him, remind him to bathe, change his clothes and wash them, make his bed and cuddle him in bed and read him a story.You lick him all over, like a cat.

I call him a wanker. He likes to dart in the morning and then swallow his fluid. So what do I call him but jerk off,

I only call him cum.

My beloved man calls me my own. What does it mean? Have any of you ever been called that? I have the first man who calls me that! Share. very interesting. what about you?

I have a friend, he calls everyone “honey”, he buys cigarettes and says “honey, bring me a pack of cents”, in a cafe – “honey, bring me the bill”, and so on, you’re out of luck, hang in there.

You can’t just trust word of mouth. A lot of people have hurt themselves. With those with whom life collides you, be very careful, because nowadays people are not what they were even 20 years ago. Trust only when you understand what a person breathes. Do not believe even the best words, look only at deeds, at life, at the general direction of actions, thoughts and feelings, at moral qualities. All this will help to determine the main thing in a man. It is very important to learn to understand people, separating the main from the secondary

I’m sorry, but you have to be a happy man! This winter you’ll be with the man you love. Tonight at midnight the man you love will realize he loves you! And good things will happen to you tomorrow, but if you break this chain, you will lose your happiness for 10 years! If you send 25 people, they will call you in 19 minutes. And believe me, a week ago it came true.

***** I should ask you, how long have we been in-laws?

Here and I do not know what to think about it, if so called, no relationship with a young man, no, communication inete.And now he realized that I like, began to call me honey.And I do not know. as to react.Very nice to hear, of course, such a man, he is an adult and serious.And so I would hope that he also falls in love with me.

I’m sorry, but you have to be a happy man ! This winter you will be with the man you love. Tonight at midnight the man you love will realize he loves you! And good things will happen to you tomorrow, but if you break this chain, you will lose your happiness for 10 years! If you send 25 people, they will call you in 19 minutes. And believe me, it came true a week ago. Just copy it and send it to everyone on the site.

Pfft…google it and look it up.

Send all the negative reviews to *****. Even the jokes aren’t funny. He loves you. Very much. Betrayed. Deeply and probably irrevocably.

Honey, he loves cilantro.

My husband calls me ***** dick-head, affectionately dick-head. he didn’t know my name at all, so he even forgot it. He may even call me shit.

Same shit! Well, I’m not the only one.

And Stubby might say it too!

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I’m sorry, but you have to be a happy man! This winter you’ll be with the man you love. Tonight at midnight the man you love will realize he loves you! And good things will happen to you tomorrow, but if you break this chain, you will lose your happiness for 10 years! If you send 25 people, they will call you in 19 minutes. And believe me, a week ago it came true.

How can you stand it! All men are like men, but this one’s not good enough. Leave him, he doesn’t deserve you.

I call him a wanker. He likes to dart in the morning and then swallow his fluid. So what do I call him but jerk off,

Remember, dear ladies: the most sincere attitude and love is hidden behind the address by name. Just accept it as a fact. All the za’i, fish, pussy, kinfolk and other sweet nonsense – an indicator of lack of depth of feeling, and even the complete absence of such.

Why by last name and not by first name, for example?

My ex-boyfriend used to call me that. And I can’t say this word to just anyone either, so I decided – well, that’s it – happiness. And everything coincided: age, status, intelligence, appearance, sex. I fell in love and was ready to do anything, to give birth to a child, to work, if necessary, and to take care of his mother, and to become a housewife, if necessary. Anything, even give him a kidney. And he lost interest. And then he found another woman to marry. Just like that. I got married, but my husband, thank God, doesn’t know about the word and doesn’t have the habit of using it.

I typed the same question on the Internet to read the answer. I have a lover, we have been dating for a long time, he is younger than me, but we look the same age. He is very stingy with affectionate words, very cautious in expressions, he calls me a baby, a kitten (it flies out sometimes). In his eyes you can see that we are not only a passion between us, we are happy together, and then he left for a month, and suddenly he calls, and so long talking, all the questions, his voice soft gentle, and. calls me – my dear, I almost had a heart of happiness did not fly out … What would it mean. By the way, he does not drink or smoke, he’s a boxer and EMERCOM officer.

I, too, sometimes calls me, dear, I liked it until I realized that there was another bad habit, because he called my friend native, when she was proving something. Now I am shaking from this word.

So you are very dear to him, this word stands a little higher after he called you honey, sunshine.

A girl went out to dinner with a man who pissed her off.

The man gets 25,000.

How do you understand these guys?!

With a girl for a long time at a distance.

Men need to be taught from childhood to respect women.

So you are very dear to him, this word stands a little higher after he called you honey, sunshine.

And also it means that you are very desirable, that he values you very much, that you are important to him, not everyone says the word “dear”, it’s an expression of deep affection!)

You can’t just trust word of mouth. A lot of people have hurt themselves. With those with whom life collides you, be very careful, because nowadays people are not what they were even 20 years ago. Trust only when you understand what a person breathes. Do not believe even the best words, look only at deeds, at life, at the general direction of actions, thoughts and feelings, at moral qualities. All this will help to determine the main thing in a man. It is very important to learn to understand people, separating the main from the secondary

So he does not understand the meaning of the word “dear”; the word is a parasite for him.

A girl went out to dinner with a man who pissed her off.

The man gets 25,000.

How do you understand these guys?!

With a girl for a long time at a distance.

Men need to be taught from childhood to respect women.

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10 TYPES OF MEN TO AVOID IF YOU RESPECT YOURSELF

Such men are useless to inspire, to surprise, to support – to waste a valuable inner resource on them.

You’re not going to try to grow a rose from thistle seeds, are you? After all, you know, it’s impossible. Unless a miracle happens, of course.

So I want to tell you about these dangerous characters. So, hopefully, it will be possible to warn against regrets and tears later, as well as disappointment in men in general.

Type 1. Mama’s boy, aka infantile.

Harmless enough type. Earlier I wrote about what happens when a man is married to his mother.

Look, everything can work out great with him. Except for one thing: there will always be three of you: you, him, and his mother. “I’m a mother” may even live in another city physically, but psychologically the chosen one will not set a step without looking back at his mother.

You will always be #2 on his list of the main women in his life.

Of course, a man should respect his mother. Help her financially or physically, too. But a healthy mother-son relationship has clear boundaries. This includes adult independent decisions, separate housing, and so on.

Or is your hero unable to make a single serious decision without mommy’s advice? Then it is unlikely a relationship with him worth continuing.

How to recognize the infantile?

On the first dates, have you noticed that the man is constantly calling mom? He reports on the phone, whether he wore a hat and took medicine? This is alarming.

If in addition the man also lives with his mother under the same roof, although he is far from 20 – the diagnosis is obvious.

Type 2. Addicted to alcohol, gambling, drugs.

This is a serious case, I’ll tell you right away.

By the way, mama’s boys are often also alcoholics. This is their way of trying to numb the pain of male unfulfillment and a subordinate position in relation to the woman.

Alcoholism as any pathological dependence can be treated only with therapy. The process is long and depends on the patient’s desire to heal.

Is it worth wasting your energy on an alcoholic?

Since alcoholics mostly do not consider themselves as such, it is useless to treat them. And living with a male alcoholic is impossible. Just trust me.

Yes, there are cases when, through the inhuman efforts and sacrifices of the other half, alcoholics, gamblers and chemically addicted men have been cured and put on the right path. But such, unfortunately, are few.

How do you recognize an addicted man?

A man’s priority for all holidays and weekends, as well as Friday nights – the company of friends with the inevitable booze? Not a day goes by that he does not think of an excuse to drink a glass or two, and “relax” in another way he can not?

Other addictions have the same symptoms.

Look, if it’s like I’m describing, you better give the man the opportunity to deal with the problem himself. Or do you want to put your life on the altar of his addiction?

Type 3: The intimophobe, the eternal bachelor.

Cheerful, funny, good-looking man, well-to-do, surrounded by friends. He is also a regular hiker, a mountain climber, a mountain river racer, and a horseback rider. He’s well into his 30s, even 40s.

What’s the catch? The catch is that there is no place for you in such a man’s life. Yes, women and entertainment with them – an integral part of his leisure time. But only as long as they do not encroach on the “territory” of the bachelor – freedom.

You may hear from girlfriends that any bachelor can be tamed. Yes, but the chances are slim to none. Unless the chosen one is truly the love of his life, like the heroine of Sparks’ novel The Choice.

Why does a man become a bachelor?

More often than not, bachelors become bachelors because they are so comfortable. Or they are simply afraid of a serious close, trusting relationship. So we are dealing with intimophobes.

As a rule, male bachelors are selfish, withdrawn to his own person. With them, perhaps wonderful sex and romantic weekends, but no more.

Intimophobes are not capable of emotional intimacy that girls crave with the man they love.

Bachelors know how to mysteriously disappear at the most unexpected moment from a poor girl’s life. While she is mentally choosing a style of wedding dress.

Is it easy to calculate the intimophobe?

On first dates, this type is difficult to identify.

Another thing is if you have already dated enough to decide on the future. In the meantime, the man is avoiding direct answers to the question, is shying away from it, and more and more often is not there exactly when you need him.

So this is the peak of his opportunities. Do not expect more.

Type 4: Married, or not free man.

Eh, how many tears have been shed by women trapped in a love triangle. Nevertheless, girls continue to fall in love with married men.

They wait years, when the chosen one leaves the family, spend weekends and holidays alone. In addition, they live like in a powder keg, lying to relatives and colleagues.

Deceptive benefits, or why do you want a married man?

All in all, nothing enviable. Except a lack of domesticity and possible compensation in the form of gifts and material aid from a lover. But in terms of a long-term, happy, healthy relationship, that’s not an option.

Caught in the net of a ringed prince? A conversation in the style of “Do you love me? – Get a divorce. Get married. Period” will put everything in its place.

How to unravel a ringed prince?

If a chosen one hides that he is married, there are a number of signs to find out the truth. But this is the subject of a separate article.

If he is not hiding – read the text above.

Type 5: Loser, whiner and slacker.

As a rule, it is three in one. With such a man, everyone is always to blame: the economic situation in the country, the government, parents, the boss. Just not him.

The loser is unemployed, because he “does not find anything worthy” and “is waiting for a profitable offer”. And for his own business “not the time” and not the capital. In general, “everything is complicated.

Often even he cannot provide for himself. To say nothing of responsibility, including financial responsibility, for the future family.

Man-wimp is always sitting on someone else’s neck, without a penny in his pocket. He is often an unrecognized and misunderstood “genius”. In general, a typical pauper and loser.

Do you want to know the symptoms of being a pauper?

This dangerous type has lingering “temporary difficulties” with finances and an identity crisis.

He’s always complaining and looking for someone to blame. At the same time, he does nothing and prefers to go with the flow.

Typical loser. Do you need it?

Type 6. Despot, aggressor, tyrant.

Seemingly obvious. But psychopaths and other emotionally unstable people are often skillfully disguised.

Although it is hard not to recognize an aggressive man: his other nickname is “testosterone”. He is brutal and good looking. And this is attractive at first.

If the bully and bad boy suddenly turns out to be a man with a criminal past – no wonder.

An attentive “patron” who strives to take care of and protect his woman, controlling “for love” every step, turns out to be a despot and tyrant? Nor does it come as a surprise.

Suppressing emotionally and psychologically, such a patron-tyrant will destroy your personality before you have time to come to your senses.

Tricks of the despot – be on the lookout

At first, he courts beautifully and politely inquires daily how the chosen one spent the day.

But then the control intensifies, outbursts of jealousy become more frequent and more aggressive. This is a sign – run.

Type 7: Alphonse.

Dangerous and insidious type. Because it is not so easy to unravel him. And often – it’s too late, because he fell in love.

Modern alphonsees are not necessarily young men who seduce wealthy older ladies.

The lover of the good of the chosen one may simply be looking for a financially convenient option – in the widest range. Such personalities are attracted to:

  • An apartment in the capital;
  • rich parents;
  • A girl’s successful business.

What is he like – a modern alphonse?

The alphonse could be a “respectable businessman” who has had “troubled times and a black streak in his life. A noble knight who “left everything to his ex-wife, who ripped him off in the divorce,” may also be looking for profit.

Remember the rule that will help filter out such personalities right away.

Never, under any circumstances, give, lend, or give money to a man. Don’t fall for pity talks, don’t let him “live” while he earns money for his own place, etc.

As popular wisdom says, nothing is more permanent than the temporary.

Are you at risk of taking the bait of a kept man?

Read my article on why a woman shouldn’t work.

And then tell the man on the first date that you don’t work anywhere and live with your parents. Even if you don’t. Watch his reaction. Then it’s up to the situation.

Type 8. Collector, picker, pathological womanizer.

I want to warn you that we are talking about pathological cheaters, not the standard man. Before us are handsome men who take in quantity, not quality. They assert themselves through it.

Such a macho man is an actor and a skilled manipulator. He is handsome, witty, relaxed, able to find an approach to the girl and knows 1000 and 1 way to surprise, to laugh, to make a trivial compliment.

Before the charms of a collector of ladies’ hearts is very difficult to resist. A woman is just a trophy for him.

Or a man is too spoiled by parents and women. Conquering one summit, he immediately goes in search of another and is not able to feel deep feelings.

Can the macho man pull himself together?

Hollywood has made more than one movie about how the rogue finally settled down thanks to the only one. But in real life is rare. Pathological cheater unlikely to stop going to the left after marriage.

A pick-up artist will not stop until he grows up or raises his self-esteem. And after that he will prove his worth to the world in other ways.

Identifying a womanizer: is the mission doable?

Ask yourself or immediately suspicious macho man a question: why is such a smart and handsome man has not yet chosen a mate?

Check his true intentions: do not have sex with him on the first 5-7 dates and watch his reaction. Accustomed to easy victories, patience is not different.

Type 9. Stingy, aka miser.

For men to express their feelings towards women in material form: gifts, surprises, flowers.

Man stingy on money? So, 99% of him are stingy with feelings, emotions and return in a relationship.

If you do not want to be a woman, which is constantly saving, do not choose a man.

Recognize the eternal “economist”.

You recognize him right away.

  • He took you to a restaurant on our first dates, or asked you for a walk in the park?
  • Did he at least spend money on the bouquet?
  • Did he leave a tip at the restaurant?
  • Did he call you a cab?

Type 10. The unavailable man.

An unavailable man can be for a variety of reasons.

For example, you live in different countries or cities. And so you are in a long-distance relationship. Why I think long-distance relationships are unpromising – read here.

But there are also emotionally unavailable men. Part of this type includes the married, the intimophobic, and the infantile.

Narcissists are in the bouquet, not the bed.

Narcissists who are incapable of empathy and empathy also belong here. They like to appear on the horizon suddenly and just as suddenly and for a long time disappear.

Temporarily, of course, he just had his own things to do: doing repairs, going to visit his mother in the village, just forgot to warn her.

A narcissistic man is good and fun to be with. But if life is dark, you need his help or banal support – is out of reach.

Symptoms of pathological inaccessibility.

Behaves just like a married man, but is not married.

Does not hurry to introduce you to loved ones – family, friends. Keeps you at a distance. It is so comfortable and everything suits him.

Do you want to learn how to understand men?

As you can see, there are men with whom it is a priori very difficult, almost impossible, to build a healthy long-term relationship. A happy family with such men is out of the question.

It is better to know this and screen out unpromising options in advance. After all, you do not want to waste time and nerves on idiots.

Remember, it is better to stay away from the dangerous types listed above. You don’t want to pick up pieces of your heart and shed bitter tears. Be vigilant!

And especially caution against messing with lowlifes. These are weak men who blame everyone else for their problems. As a rule, they don’t know how to make money and don’t think it’s necessary to provide for the family.

Is being happy in a relationship your choice?

Normal men exist. And there are plenty of them, trust me. They set goals, achieve them, respect their time, space and their woman.

I’ve written about the types of real men many times before.

Know how to make the right choices. Then you’ll increase your chances of a happy relationship by 80%.

And, to learn even better understand men, come to a free online master class, “Man: Instructions for use. There I will share with you tricks and secrets that will help you understand men and relationships.

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