How to understand that the man Leo wants to break up?

Breaking up with Leo

Good evening. Advice from the outside. We broke up with Leo 2 months ago. He lives and works in another city – there is no way I can see him, only to go to him. During these 2 months I have understood and realized a lot in our relationship – first of all my mistakes. I do not want to lose him – and during this period I wrote to him 3 times, to which he dryly answered and all the initiative did not pick up. I do not want to put pressure on him and now I think to go to his city, I think if I see him I will understand everything at once – is there still love or is it definitively finale. How would you advise, I would like the initiative to be from him, but I do not see another option.

You don’t have to go to him, you will make it even worse.

If Leo himself decides, he will find you. Leo does not like it when someone decides instead of him and annoys him.

Why go? You’ll understand, but what will be his reaction? He may simply not want to see you, can gently or rudely send you away! Lions are those types – you can’t run after them. I had a Leo admirer, just “about nothing”, yet when I dumped him, he chased me on his heels. And another year brains filling – called from different numbers, writing, although I have all sorts of sends, and get rid of the only rubbish! (alas) Have dignity, do not run after men!

theme title is incomplete )))) should be “Separation with Leo, how it hurts. ” )))

What does this have to do with a lion or not a lion? You can’t grovel in front of any man. Get it together, you wimp.

My husband is a lion and I am a lioness. I will say for us while we met and started living with him has not yet accustomed to him and something like cold treated, so he was so over me shaking, then I was so in love with him that I did not notice how he cheeked up and began to do as he wants and what he wants, until I opened my eyes and saw him already aflighenno nearing the final flirt, thank God I saw. And all as cut off, now I was again more cold but at the same time more demanding, and he became like a silk, I did not give a damn about what will be there next, but said to leave if that again I recognize, and he realized that no kidding and now as a kitten was. Not one step without my permission.

So the author of my advice to you, you can not run after a lion. As soon as he feels that he hooked and you do not slip away, he loses interest, and entirely, and when you keep him in the cold and in tension, he himself can not stand it and will come if you are interesting to him. My husband and I have this kind of fight all the time.

My husband is a lion and I am a lioness. I will say for us while we met and started living with him has not yet accustomed to him and something like cold treated, so he was so over me shaking, then I was so in love with him that I did not notice how he cheeked up and began to do as he wants and what he wants, until I opened my eyes and saw him already aflighenno nearing the final flirt, thank God I saw. And all as cut off, now I was again more cold but at the same time more demanding, and he became like a silk, I did not give a damn about what will be there next, but said to leave if that again I recognize, and he realized that no kidding and now as a kitten was. Not one step without my permission.

So the author of my advice to you, you can not run after a lion. As soon as he feels that he hooked and you do not slip away, he loses interest, and entirely, and when you keep him in the cold and in tension, he himself can not stand it and will come if you are interesting to him. My husband and I have this kind of fight all the time.

I do not know what he feels for me, maybe he has been cut off from me. Although I know that he ran after his ex-girlfriend for five years, and she treated him coldly and ended up marrying someone else. I understand that if a lion loves he will do everything himself, but I just want to understand and read in his eyes whether love is still alive?

Can not, but exactly cut off at all. How is it that you do not know how he feels? Your initiative was answered coldly – what else do you need to prove and find out? If he needed to, he would have jumped at this opportunity to build a relationship, but as it is – everything is clear without any trips.

“I don’t want to pressure him, so I’m thinking of going to his city” – you are contradicting yourself. You don’t want to pressure him, sit and wait for a signal from him. Or better yet, forget it and move on with your life, why do you need this hassle?)

I have just behaved in a wrong way during a lot of moments with a lion, I regret it now, I have understood and realized a lot of things, the guilt does not leave me.

The author, something similar was once for me too. A long distance relationship. About 8 months later (because of his huge workload) the relationship started to fade. He started calling very rarely. I kept calling, and then I got bored. Even though I realized that he was MY man and that I didn’t want to lose him, so I called and wrote first. Tired of it, I remembered my pride. And then I stopped talking. It took me 2 months and I realized that all the men who kissed me were not the ones with whom I would like to be. And then I spat on everything and rushed to him. To be honest, my girlfriends were all talking me out of it. “Look around you, so many worthy, and you’re going to someone who does not appreciate you, does not understand what kind of woman he lost. and blah, blah, blah. “Without telling anyone, I arrived, got a hotel and called. I can’t say that he was insanely happy. It was very tense in the beginning. Then the ice gradually melted, and we went to his place. The night was the best. He explained his silence and absence of love by the fact that he was afraid that I would leave him by playing, that I live in the capital, and I will never agree to move in with him, etc. I did not believe in my love. I had to prove it in words (I have never said such words to anyone). and now everything is cool! :):) We are going on our first vacation soon. And already often talk about my move. so, the author, of course, you decide! But I went, and do not regret it. Although immediately set myself up for a negative result. Just like you I wanted to look into his eyes and understand everything for sure. If you have decided, then do it! For me the words “It is better to do and regret than not to do and then regret all your life” are correct. and all the words about pride. self-love. do not run after him. are words! feel it in your heart. You have to go all the way to the end for your love. Take every chance! And then as fate has ordained!

Gone love, wilted roses: how does the typical Leo break up a relationship?

Breaking up with a representative of this sign is not difficult. Although this is a “predator,” but to kill you in a fit of passion, as abandoned, and brought to the separation of the Leo will not.

However, do not forget: it is one of the proudest signs of the zodiac. When disappointed in a person (especially – once loved), it can permanently cool down to him.

4. Unconditional acceptance of you with all the “cockroaches.

Leo is such a public person that he appears at home only for dinner and sleep. Therefore, the disadvantages of a partner this sign can trivialize not to notice.

The husband can parade around the house in stretch sweatpants, invite a friend home for a beer party – so what, as long as he does not walk away! Wife may know how to cook only eggs, all paycheck splurging on cosmetics – but a beautiful woman …

3. Ah, no, something in you still does not lend itself to logic…

Over time, the imperfection of the partner becomes perceptible to Leo. Of course, because it is either the life or the reputation of the representative of this sign that suffers!

Leo begins to worry: really he made a mistake in choosing a husband/wife…

At first he assesses himself, realizes soberly that he has not invested enough into the relationship and decides to correct it. But… The more Leo tries, the more impudent his partner becomes.

Seeing that the situation in the family is not improving, this zodiac sign does not respond with rudeness – what are you, this is completely uncharacteristic of regal personalities. He just buries himself even more in analysis.

2. risk assessment.

After realizing that he is not the main cause of conflicts, Leo realizes that it is better to separate.

If he wants, he can give his spouse another chance, try to have a heart-to-heart talk, even make an appointment with a family psychologist. But when the imperfections of his partner (impudence, rudeness, mockery) once again hurt Leo, he understands – this horse died long ago.

1. Go away!

Breaking up with Leo will not please anyone. Only yesterday you, playfully, wrung his nerves, and today you notice that he writes explicit text message to another / friend.

At the offended question “What is it?” Leo coldly, but with an unpleasant smile responds: “And why are you surprised, you don’t even give me money for groceries”, “you refuse intimacy for the third month”…

And with that smile, Lev moves away, slowly but inevitably. He can still live together for some time, but from the relationship left a pale ghost that can be called neither family nor friendship.

Scolding him is useless – he will let your anger on the brakes, will disappear for a day, and then it turns out that he has already found a new “pride”. Maybe even with a new girlfriend – the opposite sex is very fond of representatives of this bright zodiac sign.

By the way, after a breakup, Leo does not disappear completely. You can correspond with him and even date, but – no more trust, but do not expect love.

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