How to take a lion man out of the family?

The mistress of a man a lion

Mistress, who had a married man lion lover, sign out please. I do not know how to behave. I want regular meetings, I know that he wants to. But then work, then family. I don’t see him much. Sometimes I think…

Me, can I ask you a question? Since you’re on this thread, are you a lion’s wife? And what is your horoscope? Sagittarius, perhaps?

I agree with those who write that a lion won’t abandon his family. I am married and have a daughter. It seems all is well. But then my lion showed up (old love, we broke up because of a stupid reticence, which has only now become clear). He is already married. His wife is six years older. He was complaining about his wife, wanted to leave and was making plans for the future. When his wife found out and without any lengthy scandals, she quickly became pregnant (before that she “could not make it” for two years).She has no education, she immediately quit her job when she married and enrolled as a full-time student. And there is a threat to the family, because he is such that he can play it any way you want. Now I am partly glad that it happened this way, if we were living together I would be constantly afraid that someone would steal him away. But even now he calls and says that he loves me and that I am the best and asks for forgiveness for not being able to leave his pregnant wife. I realize that even without the baby he wouldn’t leave. And for sex and for conversation is the best person for me and just a good friend.

author, may I ask: how old is your married man?

Damn, I have the same situation, only I am 21 he is 36! He has a lot of work, and his wife is practically watching him! I do not know what to do? How to understand how he feels about me?

Lions are the most promiscuous and it is easy to steal him away from the family, the most unstable sign!

I have been living with a lion for 20 years, he cheated, two children, they were small. I decided to forgive, and now he has gone to his mistress, good riddance! Lions must sing deferembas 25 hours a day, they are egoists! You can go out with them, but I advise against marriage, it is no good!

Find yourself an unmarried man–Lions do not abandon their families!

It depends on what kind of man! The sign does not matter, if at least a civil marriage lived with more than five, then the stamp is not a hindrance.

They don’t know what they’re writing. Zodiac sign is not everything. And the year of birth? It can happen that one is medical, the other – death.

And if I am a Sagittarius (i.e. lover), how to deal with him. but I never call him

I think the less you write, the better.

Girls I think that if a lion on the side of the sex will be more often and better and praise his mistress will also be more often no children will hold him and it does not matter if it is a lion or another sign a man is a man in Africa. they need to eat, sleep, play with his libido and that is the most important thing without it nowhere

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Oh girls, I also have this happened.I am a Sagittarius.I met him at work.Half a year he tried to get through to me at all, and a month ago he found an approach, we communicate, we see each other every day at work or after work, but on weekends he is with family.He is very like, kind good.I did not want to communicate with him when I learned that married.I asked questions. He says he adores me. we are like a drug for each other, he is 29, i have known his wife for 10 years and have a son. i know with my brain he will not leave the family. if it were bad, he would leave first and then look for a new one. he just does not intend to hide our relationship. i got confused in general, and do not know how to relate to him.

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More than 7 years into the relationship. Family, daughters, wife, work,

numerous relatives – then me. But it doesn’t go away for some reason. And I don’t have the same terrible passion that I had seven years ago.

no longer exists. But I will always remember it as the most desirable.

I have the same story. I even thought we were dating the same person. I’ve been seeing him for three years and everything is the same as yours. Is his name Emil by any chance?

My ex-husband is a lion. Left the family after 19 years of marriage. Doesn’t do much for his son. Saves up on him. Is that responsible? They’re selfish!

Two of my marriages were with Leo, one continues, thank God! Don’t be silly and don’t wear pseudo glasses, Leo man if he wants to be with a woman, he does everything for it and as soon as possible! He just wants “like everyone else” to have something to talk about, but cheating is not for him!

I will share my story with you, the truth is that it is not over yet. We met accidentally in the parking lot of his house, I was waiting for my friend, and he came home. He is 8 years older than me, his wife is 10 years older than me and they have been living for 10 years), no children (thank God) He bears me in his arms, no one has ever treated me like that before. He does not want a divorce but he is “poor”, he says he feels bad at home, he thinks about me all the time. He does not give me a break, he is quite influential in the city and everyone knows that it would be expensive to approach me, especially to get acquainted. I am in a kind of a gold cage and I do not want to break up with him and I want my freedom, and I am jealous of my wife, even though he does not sleep with me and they are friends.

Oh girls, I also have this happened.I am a Sagittarius.I met him at work.Half a year he tried to get through to me at all, and a month ago he found an approach, we communicate, we see each other every day at work or after work, but on weekends he is with family.He is very like, kind good.I did not want to communicate with him when I learned that married.I asked questions. He says he adores me. we are like a drug for each other, he is 29, i have known his wife for 10 years and have a son. i know with my brain he will not leave the family. if it were bad, he would leave first and then look for a new one. he just does not intend to hide our relationship. i got confused in general, and do not know how to relate to him.

All exactly the same as you, read my story above, I have the same absolutely does not hide our relationship, the city is small, constantly in popular places together. do not know what to do.

Girls, do not delude yourself about lion men (married men). Maybe clever and wise spouses lions (other unlikely to take a wife) and lives a royal life next to them, but the girl-lover or rather mistresses (so be more accurate) lives no more than his entire environment. I have a relationship with a married man a lion for two years. Lions sneak up on their conquest silently, gently ovalivate, and you yourself will not notice how you fall in love with this lion, capable of so skillfully play up his love for you, while pressing all the weaknesses of your female psychology (expensive gifts, messages just dropping off, hours will wait for you from work at the door of the same work that just to take you home). This is from my own experience, and then when you win, will move you into the ranks of his pleasant surroundings once every two weeks, or as the king deigns to do.Well, a bunch of paralelnyh conquests are also waiting, which of course just like you will move over time simply to the ranks of his entourage. How would you neointerisovali lion if his family is happy with everything, he will never leave it, and therefore you further than necessary in his soul will not let. If you agree with this arrangement, then torment! I myself am married, I am happy with everything, he is solid and rich, we just have a good time, everything is fair here. Good luck!

Mistresses, who has had a married man lion as a lover, please sign off. I do not know how to behave. I want regular meetings, I know that he wants to. But then work, then family. We rarely see each other. Sometimes I think he doesn’t care about me. But he won’t give up on me. I’m not gonna break up the family. It’s just a pastime, that’s all. Maybe someone has been in a similar relationship, please write. Thank you in advance.

I too have exactly the same situation. I see very rarely calls sometimes do not want to break up. And I am so tired of his constant excuses that no time. Yes, and even greedy to the same for a year and a half did not give a single flower, or in a cafe not vvodil all in the car The star in shock!

I too have exactly the same situation. I see very rarely calls sometimes do not want to break up. And I am so tired of his constant excuses that no time. Yes, and even greedy to the same for a year and a half did not give a single flower, or in a cafe not vvodil all in the car The star in shock!

I started to meet a lion in August, he is married, in October he already started to live with me, while I met him everything was for me and all at his expense, but no flowers or presents were and now is not, as for money the greedy became like a lover-terrorist not everyone can handle it, the slogan of lions when they have achieved it “ANY CAPRISE FOR YOUR MONEY”.

I am married with two children. I do not like to praise myself, but I will say that others say that I am beautiful, well-bred, quiet, etc. It so happened that I met a guy on a website, married, lion. We communicated for a long time, and eventually met. There were a lot of friction because of his wife, that we rarely see each other, he does not call often, and for me 3 calls a day is rare. He is at work, I am at home, naturally I missed him more. There were a lot of deceptions, though I understand not to lose me. But still, I am honest with him and I demanded the same from him. I have been fed up and said good-bye three times. Every time he begged me, pleaded, begged forgiveness. I want to be with him, and we live 3 hours away from each other. That’s why we rarely see each other. But when it is rare, as much as 2 months, I begin to piss off, curse him and his wife, send him to hell. But in the end we still do not part. I do not know what kind of relationship, but we both love. It checked. But I will say that he does not give me gifts, though as he drinks he begins to lament how he is guilty of me that he can not give gifts, etc. Such a stupid story.I do not know how to be further.With her husband I have sex, I expect only him, but as I am very temperamental, it becomes unbearable, especially since I want it all the time.And I am a horoscope Leo.

A we do not sozvanivaniye (( calls seldom (( and only when he wants to see. Offended, called at least every day for a couple of minutes, and to see each other is not necessary, but does not call. It’s a little weird. Knows I want to see him all the time, but says I’ll call and see him myself. He says he feels guilty before his wife. If he does, why doesn’t he put a stop to it, I don’t understand. I wonder if he loves his wife. He says he doesn’t, then he wouldn’t see you. I don’t call, I don’t bother him, I do everything so I don’t burn him. I just really want to see him, to be with him, and I don’t need anything else.

I have a very similar situation, only mine does not feel guilty before his wife. I do everything as you do not to burn him and myself, it is not clear that there are no children in the family, it is a very painful topic for him. I once snapped, called him (at a certain time, of course) and said that he meant everything to me, and then he immediately distanced himself, and I realized that I did it and I should only call him up as he immediately rushes to me happy, but for very little time(((( but I do not keep it better, but do not let go and with him so well that I can not look at others normally ( it is killer. (((

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Divorce, filing for alimony, getting the kids registered.

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Mistresses, who has had a married man lion as a lover, please sign off. I do not know how to behave. I want regular meetings, I know that he wants to. But then work, then family. We rarely see each other. Sometimes I think he doesn’t care about me. But he won’t give up on me. I’m not gonna break up the family. It’s just a pastime, that’s all. Maybe someone has been in a similar relationship, please write. Thank you in advance.

He says he won’t let me live with anyone else either.

No one understands us, a woman as a man wants a fairy tale in the midst of this everyday life, why take him out of the family, to turn this fairy tale into the same everyday life, let his wife do it, she has the same everyday life with her husband. And I want that one special most beautiful beloved sexy lion with whom passion does not pass for several years, says that I am his outlet with me he flies away, but unfortunately we see very rare and as it happens not free people in spartan conditions and in compressed time, and so want this rare fairy tale full, with flowers, with champagne and with candles how to explain it to my favorite lion and how to make that this tale has not ended

My lion got married at the age of 20, now he is 29, and there is a child of 1.5 years. When we met he immediately spun a crazy romance! I am not one of those who purposely ruin families (according to my horoscope I am an Aquarius) and I told him about it, disappeared, tried to stop the relationship, even though I loved him. In the end he divorced and came to me with a proposal for family life. There you go.

Similar situation with the author, but I am interested in another issue. I do not pester. do not call, do not write texts … I thought I would be silent until the king himself does not deign to show up… But he has been silent for weeks, but he does not put a point. Maybe the opposite of a need to make myself known?

Mistresses, who has had a married man lion as a lover, please sign off. I do not know how to behave. I want regular meetings, I know that he wants to. But then work, then family. We rarely see each other. Sometimes I think he doesn’t care about me. But he won’t give up on me. I’m not gonna break up the family. It’s just a pastime, that’s all. Maybe someone has been in a similar relationship, please write. Thank you in advance.

Mistresses, who has had a married man lion as a lover, please sign off. I do not know how to behave. I want regular meetings, I know that he wants to. But then work, then family. We rarely see each other. Sometimes I think he doesn’t care about me. But he won’t give up on me. I’m not gonna break up the family. It’s just a pastime, that’s all. Maybe someone has been in a similar relationship, please write. Thank you in advance.

I am a lion myself, my father is a lion, my brother is a lion, and my beloved lion is simply a lair of animals))) I can generalise. all of us if we are keen or love it can be seen at once, but if I want to amuse my vanity I can go on a date, but if I do not have to exert myself much. Now I will explain,on a planned date I will go with pleasure from boredom, for example, but if they call me and offer to meet, and I’m not at this point in the fighting readiness, then I just once will weigh up all the pros and cons and rather decline and postpone the date when I will have the desire and the mood. That’s what we are))) my dad is a Leo and my mom is a Capricorn live wonderful, but in his youth he often went to the left, different temperament. the Lion needs a lot of passion and sex. here I am sure that YOUR looking for it in you! One of my friends lions are lazy and they will not look for partners, their connections are valuable and will not be thrown away))), uniquely, that you suit him as a partner. my girlfriend has a lover, Leo 15 years, from his wife was going to leave only after his son got married and he bought a house where he now brought his mistress to live, and left his wife to spend her old age!

How to steal a married man? The Truth from a Man.

Today I will get deep into the heart of the relationship and draw in simple, wet language how to steal a man away from his wife or boyfriend from his girlfriend with a very high probability.

Initially, we take a man’s relationship with someone. And you. And your desire for that man.

You don’t care about all obstacles, you don’t care about anything. You’re used to getting what you want. Let’s at least leave the morals behind so that you can blow your nose in them.

I can’t blame a girl if she starts thinking about getting another man’s man. What is her fault? It’s more the man’s fault here. And more his girlfriend or wife, since he’s a hungry wolf looking for others. If you don’t steal, somebody else will.

A man is not a dog that you quietly untied from the fence and stole for yourself. And he sits with sad eyes near you and misses his family. He’s a wolf, and he decides for himself how to live his life. It’s just that we’re going to help him a little bit.

That’s why I’ll use a term like WELCOME, to make it clearer.

I’m not giving a 100% guarantee that you will steal a married man, but I think this is one of the best and most effective ways to do it.

Let’s imagine a small point. That’s a man. Around that point, we’ll draw a circle-that’s his comfort zone. That comfort zone includes his life. His habits, his beliefs, his family, his friends, his job.

Even if a man feels lousy in that comfort zone, it’s still a comfort zone to feel lousy in. We’re all men of habit. We can spend our whole fucking lives in a job we don’t like and live with a man we don’t like. Just because we’re used to living that way. Let’s be honest – that’s the way most people live. In terrible habits.

It’s nonsense. But it is. Man is sick with his habits. Man clings to even the horribly uncomfortable and dreary comfort zone! Idiot!

Imagined that circle and dot, didn’t you?

And there’s that line, that black boundary line of his comfort zone. You’re standing on it. You’re not outside his comfort zone, but you’re not in it either.

Though a man is a man of habits, he always wants his heart to beat harder. So he often walks to that boundary. He gets his special high there. That’s where his brain pulses.

But then he goes back into his circle again.

The biggest mistake all women make who want to steal a man away is getting into that comfort zone. It is to become HIS life. His normality. His comfort zone.

His heart doesn’t beat as much anymore. He doesn’t go to that edge anymore. He feels lousy comfortable becoming WITH YOU.

Either try to get him out of that circle, out of his comfort zone. It’s when you do that that he disappears. He doesn’t want to be out of his comfort zone.

And our job is to make sure that you don’t go into his comfort zone. Not to take him out of his comfort zone. But to make him create another circle. With your hands and my brains. So this man should have two circles. Two comfort zones. Two lives. Two lives.

You know what kind of men most often leave their women? They are the ones who have a clear comfortable second circle. Men who lead double lives, who, for example, have two families – he tends to go to a mistress more often than he stays with his wife.

How to steal a man?

1. Make sex with him his habit.

You need to make him accustomed to your body. It has become familiar to him.

When a man cheats on his wife. What does he have going on? He fucks his wife every day or a couple of times a week for years. He knows every curve of her body. His penis, his psyche, his tactility, his sense of smell, his receptors are all so used to his wife that having sex even with someone who is times better than his wife – he doesn’t get the emotions he gets with his wife.

Even if he screams that he has the best sex with you and his wife is all fucked up. That’s partly true. But only partly. A small part of it. But a big part of the man gets high off his wife, unless, of course, the wife’s weight is there, like a muscular man.

The wife has adjusted to her husband’s cock.

Her vagina has taken the shape of her husband’s cock. A man doesn’t cum fast with his wife because he wants to cum faster and turn the fuck away to sleep. NO. More often than not, it’s because she’s doing things the way he enjoys them. A quick ejaculation is a sign of being fucked. Not cumming for a long time just means he’s just trying. He wants to give more pleasure.

Cock adjusts to his wife’s vagina. When a man enters another woman his first thought is unaccustomed. Not like his wife’s. It doesn’t feel the same.

It’s like his hand. He’s used to jerking off with his hand.

He’s comfortable jerking off with his hand. And it would feel completely different if another girl jerked him off. He will still do it with his hand more often, because his hand already knows HOW to jerk off. No other hand knows that.

His wife is his hand. They’ve had too much sex. She feels her husband too well. He feels his wife too well. He knows her taste, all of his body and penis receptors are completely attuned to her.

The mistake all mistresses make is to start surprising him with sex. His wife doesn’t suck his cock for half an hour and they don’t fuck for hours like teenagers. And the mistress fucks with her throat. And with the mistress, the sex is too passionate.

But that’s how they started out. He wanted to surprise her, she wanted to surprise him, so the sex was long, passionate. Then it became relaxed. The lover sucks all his juices and the man understands – it’s cool, yes! BUT at the same time he understands that he can’t pull it off. He can’t always fuck her that hard. So he gets the idea in his head – she won’t last long. Just for sex. Then back into his circle.

Your job is to have sex with him the way he has sex with his wife. A little less passion. Encourage him to cum faster. Stop surprising him with sex.

I had a mistress who did that. She acted like a wife in sex. After 15 minutes of sex she would say, “Come on, cum.

Of course, the height of virtuosity to do is to imitate sex the way your wife does it. Also riding his dick, also moaning. Also fucking. This is practically very difficult to do.

But one student of mine did. She slept with a married man and he was quite reckless. During sex, they were telling each other fantasies. And she said, “I want to see you fuck your wife. The guy, of course, was freaking out, at first he denied it. But he could see that it turned the girl on. So he made up his mind. He put an action camera and filmed sex with his wife and sent it off to his mistress on Viber.

When she watched it, she realized that the wife wasn’t about anything at all. And she asked me – why didn’t he get hooked up with me then, if I was so much better than her?

I told her. Why don’t you imitate his wife and see what happens.

Six months later he divorced and started living with this girl.

I don’t think you can do that. Because it’s very difficult to do.

But I think you get the point. Fake sex like you do with your wife. Let him get used to your body. Make sex with you regular.

2. Form a second life.

What do other authors advise? They say – you have to become a better wife. I say – you have to become like a wife. And so slowly, imperceptibly improve.

And you have to pull him into a second life.

What do lovers usually do? They meet in rented apartments, hotels, in the car. Sometimes in a dark corner of a cafe. He knows you as a lover and this is his comfort zone. You’re already in it. You have to do things differently.

You need to drag him into your life. And slowly but surely, you have to break into his life yourself.

For example, you can say, let’s go to my friends’ house and hang out and then we’ll go back to my place.

He has friends in his circle, he has friends of his wife. But he doesn’t have your friends. You need to start introducing him to your friends. So he can see that these are great guys and if he forms a new circle of comfort – he’ll be fine in it.

How does the man feel? I don’t know her life. I don’t know her friends, relatives, acquaintances and co-workers. But I do know all my wife’s friends. I’m used to them. I feel lousy with them, but I’m comfortable with them.

When you start introducing him to your friends, acquaintances and co-workers – he starts to quietly form a little new circle.

Next, you drag him or provoke him to spend time together. Watch a movie together, go to a concert together. Have lunch together. Have dinner together. Have breakfast together.

You let him get used to it.

You courier him a goodie at work. He knows it’s from you. He tastes your food. He smells the toilet water you gave him. He drinks the coffee at home that you gave him. He brings your gifts home or to work. Like he bought them himself or a friend at work gave them to him.

Yeah, you’re invested in him. If he’s not an idiot, if he feels good about it, he’ll also be invested in you. Of course he will. You’ve been taught to feel puppyish joy at his gifts, which you’re not allowed to do in this situation! You should accept his gifts as his wife. Thank you, period.

Get him out at lunchtime. Ask him to drive you, drive him yourself.

Make sure he passes something on to people you know. For example, you could ask him to give a bag to your friend. Honey, take it to her, it’s on your way anyway.

You ask him to buy you something. Some little thing. Are you gonna be in that neighborhood? Buy me a smoothie jar there. I’ll give you the money.

Little things like that, you’re imitating his wife. And he understands, but no, he doesn’t, he feels it. How he sinks deeper into his new life. And the new circle starts to get bigger and bigger.

You can also help him in his affairs. For example, write – I’m on my way to the post office now. You wanted to send something. Let me send it, what are you going to rush there?

He will not notice himself as he invests more and more time in you, he realizes that he is as much with you as he is with his wife. And then he has a question on a very deep level. Do I need the wife I’m walking away from? He will start to think about that.

It would be ideal if he introduced you to his friends. Provoke him to talk about them. Try to get him to introduce you to them. The more you know his friends, the more he knows yours, the more effective.

Create a business trip for him. Give him an excuse for his wife. Say – let me get a friend to call you and supposedly call you for work. And we’ll spend more time together. Believe me, that’s what he wants, but when his wife is scorching him at home – he’s confused. It’s harder and harder for him to come up with excuses. So you come up with one. Create an excuse for him.

And spend more time with him. Get him used to you.

3. more emotions and different situations.

He doesn’t know you as well as he knows his wife. He knows exactly how his wife behaves in an argument. He knows what she is like emotionally. He knows how she reacts to something. To jealousy, to his weaknesses. How she gets angry, how she gets happy, how she depresses.

He doesn’t know you. You’re a sweetheart. You always try. You’re always on the positive side. And that’s a mistake, too.

Have a little fight. Pout a little bit. Make him jealous for a while. Make it up as you go along, create a situation in which you show your emotions. It’s critical that HE gets used to them. Remember. A man gets hooked on habits. Let him get used to your emotions that you haven’t shown him before.

Don’t be afraid of it, don’t be afraid to open up to him. Yes, I advise you to play the riddle, you can now once again charge me that I am contradicting myself. However, we are talking about a specific situation. When you decided to steal a man. And you have to behave differently here than you would if you were just starting to fall in love with him from scratch. So I’m not contradicting myself. I’m just talking about different situations.

In this case, you need to let him get to know you better. To get him used to you. So that he starts to feel you as a second life.

You have to think like his habit.

4. Provoke him to leave the house.

When you have done all the points above. When he gets to know you. Learns about you. Introduces you to his friends. When he gets to know your acquaintances. Your emotions. When he gets used to having sex with you. When you start to be his habit.

We know full well that he probably doesn’t get along with his wife. Encourage him in an argument to leave. That is, when he quarrels with his wife (and he naturally does), you need to make sure that he doesn’t sit in different pouting corners with her. And slammed the door resentfully and went where? That’s right. To you.

Start that manipulation. Oh, you know, the best thing to do to keep from ruining the relationship is to cool off. Go for a walk. Go to a bar. When you fight with your wife, don’t listen to her scandals. Just get mad and go for a walk. And you’ll calm down, and so will she.

That’s where it would be a mistake to say – well, or come to me. He’ll know right away what you want and why you’re saying it. But at the same time, these words one way or another will sink into his subconscious. He will do so. He won’t even realize that he himself will start provoking arguments to get away.

And more often than not, he will go into a new circle. Into new habits. To you.

5. An accident? I guess.

And then. Sooner or later. His wife will check his phone. She’ll find your hair wrapped around his dick. You’ll be seen together by his best friend, who’ll sprint at the speed of light to leak it to her. And there will be endless arguments. Jealousy goes wild. And the man wants his habits. And he’ll see them in you now.

Remember, the more often and for longer a man cheats, the more likely he is to get caught. First, he’s wildly cagey. He frantically removes your hair from his shirt. Overpowers your smells with other smells. Cleans up all your correspondence.

And then lets his guard down. 100% loses his guard. Lying to his wife becomes so monstrous that he can no longer fully control everything, he’ll start to get confused, forgetful.

And sooner or later he’ll be burned. All accidents are not random. He will never be comfortable at home again. His circle of comfort will throw his dot all over the place.

He’s used to living differently. He will want those habits back. And then he will clearly understand that only you can give them to him.

Supplements.

If he has children, is a father and loves them, he will suffer. Your job is just to tell him not to worry. They’re still your kids, too. You will also see them. I won’t stop you from doing that. Let’s go buy them a toy. You can take them and bring them over, I’ll feed them pancakes.

You make it clear that the kids aren’t going anywhere. At a time when his wife is screaming with her eyes bulging that he’s a traitor and he’s not gonna see the kids now, you’re changing the picture of the world.

I’m against cheating. I want children to live in complete and happy families. I want children to be happy. I want people to love each other. But neither you nor I can make men not cheat. Neither you nor I can get a lazy wife to get her lazy ass up in popcorn and achieve something in life. It’s their choice to be that way. It’s their decisions and at the end of the day it’s their life.

He made his own decision to cheat. You won’t be his mistress. There will be someone else. All the responsibility is on him alone. You don’t ruin the family, he does. His wife ruins the family by not taking care of herself, by not developing herself, or by letting herself go a long time ago. The children see all of this. They see the quarrels and indifference of their parents to each other. You can’t explain to children that their parents married on the fly. You can’t explain to kids that people made the wrong choices about each other. You can’t explain to children that the world is harsh and cruel.

You can’t explain to them that Daddy fell in love with someone else. They’ll grow up and figure it out for themselves. Because they’ll all go through it. They will be lovers. They will also, unfortunately, cheat, leave them for others and lose interest in their mates.

And that will be their choice and their life. They will also blow their nose at morality, realizing that sometimes love is more important than any morality. Whether this is good or bad is everyone’s choice.

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