How to manipulate a man to fall in love with his ears – an instruction manual
In this article I will tell you how to manipulate a man to fall in love up to his ears. The tools for falling in love will be practical in nature. No general phrases or water, this material contains only working techniques.
Today you will learn: what falling in love really is, what practical steps to take to get a man hooked on you as a drug. And also I will tell you one interesting method that will make a man think about you all the time.
How to manipulate a man to fall in love up to his ears – I’ll tell you in simple words
To begin with, let’s define falling in love, to understand what goal to move towards.
Using CT scans, scientists have studied the brains of people in different emotional states. In a person in love, a concentration mechanism was activated in the cerebral cortex. A similar state was observed in avid gamblers or drug addicts who were focused on getting a big win or a new dose.
Falling in love is a person’s concentration on you. The brain of a man in love concentrates on the most important task: finding a way to get close to the person you love and be there for him. While a man is in love with a girl, he cannot fall in love with another in parallel. Because concentration is the brain’s fixation on one object.
Additionally! Another interesting point is that the crush of a stale man will be much stronger than the crush of a romantic. Because for a real stale person, the state of being in love will be a life event that rarely happens. Therefore, the value of love for a stale person will be high.
The first way to fall in love is biochemically. When a person at the sight of you produces certain hormones, which create a feeling of falling in love in the head. But on this variant we will not focus our attention, because it does not depend on us. We are interested in the methods of falling in love, which we can control by ourselves.
Important! Falling in love is not a static state where you fall in love once. It is a process. A process of concentration on an object. And since it is a process, it is possible to influence it and create such a state in a person.
Conclusion: The task of starting the mechanism in the man’s mind to concentrate on you. You need to create conditions in which his brain will go towards the goal to win your attention.
How to fall in love with any man – a practical guide
To begin with, I will tell you a popular way to fall in love that doesn’t work. You need to know the working and not working(popular) schemes of falling in love so you don’t make unnecessary mistakes.
The not working, but popular way to fall in love
Many people believe that the state of falling in love appears according to the following scheme:
- A reason to fall in love arises (pheromones, spark, etc.);
- The emotional state of falling in love arises;
- The person does things that people in love usually do (courts, cares, gives gifts, etc.);
Girls try to induce a man in a state of being in love, which will induce him to show signs of attention.
BUT – this method will not work!
Because you will never know what processes in a man’s head caused the state of falling in love. The man himself doesn’t know that either. He can only adjust the answer to his emotions, and he doesn’t know the real reason why the girl has fallen in love with him.
If men knew why they fell in love, they would always fall in love with their ideal. And this does not happen, very often a man understands on a logical level that he may suffer with this girl, and in spite of this still loves her.
Conclusion: a man is not aware of the process of forming feelings in his head. And accordingly, you don’t know what can affect his emotions.
How does the average girl try to make a man fall in love with her:
- Trying to be unusual;
- Wants to be liked;
- Trying to make a man fall in love with her;
And what happens to a girl who acts according to this scheme? She begins to concentrate on the man herself and think about how to get him. And concentration is falling in love. That is, she doesn’t fall in love with a man by her actions, but she falls in love with him.
What a man thinks when you’re trying to be invested in him: “It’s cool to be invested in me. And what does he do? – Nothing, he doesn’t do anything. So he’s not concentrating on you.
Conclusion: trying to please, impress or conform to a man’s ideal is not a workable scheme that we will not use.
The working way to fall in love
Now we’re going to talk about methods that are effective.
How do you make a man fall in love with you? You need to make the man start committing actions towards you. Actions that a man in love does.
Proven fact! Suppose there is a man in your environment who communicates with you, but does not have a feeling of love for you. If he starts doing things for you that are typical of a man in love, he will fall head over heels in love.
I tested this fact on myself. I had a girlfriend that I wasn’t in love with. I was only attracted to her sexually, I had no deep feelings for her. When we started dating, I started doing things that people in love do. Helped her with everything, gave her flowers/gifts, wrote her, thought about her, cared about her, etc. And over time, I fell in love with a girl who didn’t really light me up to begin with.
Why does this happen?
First, when a man does the right thing (for you) towards you, his brain begins to concentrate. I mean, I started concentrating on that girl. And that’s what falling in love is.
Secondly, the brain tries to fit the response to the actions we take.
From what we have written above, we conclude: Your task is to provoke in a man an impulse that will make him start to seek you out and take action to achieve this goal.
You need from a man that he:
- Doesn’t want to lose you;
- Thinks about you very often;
- Cared about you and helped you;
- Appreciated you;
- Called and wrote often;
- Confessed his feelings;
- The list could go on forever, the main point is clear.
But there is one “but” that can ruin all your plans!
When you set a goal to fall in love with a man, you focus on him. And, accordingly, you yourself begin to fall in love. You may begin to do things that are illogical and emotional. Your emotions can ruin the whole process.
What to do about it?
You shouldn’t get hung up on just one man. You should charm not only this man, but also others (and then choose the best among them). If you don’t fixate on one man, but distract your brain to work, girlfriends/friends or other men, your crush will not come before time.
Now let’s break down in detail how to provoke a man into doing the right thing.
Doesn’t want to lose you.
Actions a man: he is afraid that your communication may stop. And begins to take actions to prevent this from happening.
How to implement? Create in his head the image that many men are just dreaming to get you. Let him think they are all fighting for your attention.
– I’m so upset, two of my co-workers had a fight today. As it turns out they are both in love with me. I was so surprised. After all, my relationship with neither of them is impossible! (This is one of many options, you can pick any one that is congruent with your personality)
Another option (we use it when a man demonstrates inappropriate behavior toward you)
– Your behavior little by little kills the warm feelings I have for you!
With this phrase you are hinting to the man that he is in danger of losing your favor. And he will understand that this is due to his bad behavior in relation to you.
Persistent Thoughts of You.
The man’s actions: he thinks about you, wants to see you, calls, writes messages.
How to implement? There is a very interesting way to make a man think about you. I have already written about it in one of my articles, but now duplicate it.
Imagine that you are a guest of the man. Just pillow his pillow with your perfume (preferably it was good quality and the smell is preserved for a long time). And before you leave his house, say: “Every night when you will fall asleep, you will think about me.
From that moment on, the man, putting his head on the pillow, will breathe in the smell of your perfume and remember you and your moments together.
It doesn’t have to be a pillow. You can perfume with your perfume any thing that the man uses often (preferably every day). It can be a diary, a notebook, a book. (The main thing is not to spray it on his clothes, the scent of women’s perfume on his clothes man will not survive).
3. Taking care and helping.
Actions by the man: To take care of you and your safety, to help, to show signs of attention.
How to implement: provoke action man can be used with a legend.
Tell your man that another guy is giving you a hard time. Let him play the role of your boyfriend, so that the intrusive guy sees and gets away. Let the man walk you home, for example. Also, for the sake of appearances, give him a kiss. And so, step by step the man begins to invest, which is exactly what we need.
4. A declaration of love
This is probably one of the most important things a man should do.
The man’s action: a declaration of love (even if just for the sake of playing, fake).
How to implement: a quality legend that will make the man say that he loves you.
Information about the legend on the confession of feelings contained in the article: How to get a man to run after you (opens in a new tab)
5. Thinking about how to make you fall in love
A man’s actions: his brain is thinking about what ways to get you.
You already remember that falling in love is the concentration of a person’s thoughts on you. You have to make it so that in his head there are thoughts of how to get you. And then he will begin to fixate on you, in other words, to concentrate.
The way of realization
Simply ask the man a question:
“How do you think you could get me to fall in love with you? What would you have to do to make me fall in love?”
And then let him share his options with you. And add: – This will work! And this won’t!
With questions like these, we trigger thought viruses in a man’s head that paint the right pictures in his imagination. And his brain sets the goal: “I have to make her fall in love with me,” and begins to focus on solving it.
P.s. You can also come up with your own options that will make a man think about how to get you. Every practical tip I’ve written above you can rework to suit you. My goal was to convey the meaning and basic principles of techniques for falling in love.
Important! If you want to get a complete and systematic structure on falling in love with a man – you can buy my book “How to fall in love with a man? This book contains only working and practical recommendations that have been tested by real experience. You can buy the book here (opens in a new tab)
Now you know the answer to the question, “How to manipulate a man to fall in love up to his ears?” We also broke down the topic of falling in love and found out that falling in love is a man’s focus on you. Now all you have to do is use the practical advice in real life and see how effective it is.
In conclusion I want to say that the main mistake of most people in communicating with the opposite sex is to think within standard templates. Like if you like a man, then I have (should) do something for him, and then he will appreciate. But if you want to fall in love with a man, then you should not do something for him, but he for you. This is the basic law of seduction!
Make men invest in you (not only financially, but also in their thoughts, actions, deeds, etc.) and then they will love you.
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How to manipulate a man: psychology and 3 methods of manipulation
Many women have not once heard about the methods of manipulating a man. But almost all of them can not decide: should they try this method of influence, or not.
Let’s look into it. Manipulation of a man – a delicate art. It is necessary for a woman to easily influence a man and get what he wants.
Women who do not seek to learn about male psychology and how to influence men are missing out on a great deal.
As soon as you begin to understand men better, to guide them, to predict their actions, your personal life will begin to change for the better. Relationships with men will improve, you will be appreciated and you will always be the center of attention.
Women who want a full and happy relationships, will certainly grasp the basics of competent manipulation of the man. The following video will help in this:
How women manipulate a man
Every woman has faced her helplessness in the face of male power: straightforwardness and assertiveness. She is simply unable to fight the male qualities. At such moments, all women feel weak, insignificant, unable to change a man’s mind. This has prompted women to learn how to manipulate the male gender very cunningly and skillfully.
A wise woman uses the following ways to manipulate a man:
- Uses his appetite. Any man is much easier to give in to any persuasion, if he is full, and is in harmony and comfort. It should be competent and creative approach to the preparation of food, and table setting. If your table will be attended by candles and his favorite food, then from a simple dinner party will turn into a real romantic evening. After waiting for your chosen one to fully satisfy his hunger and be in a state of relaxation, you can safely begin to state a wish or request. Almost everyone after a great dinner will want to thank you, and probably will fulfill a wish.
- Compliments and praise. Absolutely every man wants to look in the eyes of a woman worthy and important. He wants to feel special for her, the best. Not for nothing they say: a woman makes her man. If a woman believes in her man, always supports him, says compliments, then next to her man becomes better and more successful. That is why women should help their men and not stingy with compliments.
- Common interests. This is a very important tip. When a woman man manages to find common interests with a man, she easily gets his trust and respect. You can prepare an interesting dialogue with a man, finding out his interests in advance. Just talk to him and try to find out what he likes, whom he looks up to, what he considers the main thing in life, to what goals seeks. If you know the answers to these questions, you can quickly achieve his location. He will feel with you a lot in common, you become interesting to him, which means that now it is easy to manage, and he is unlikely to refuse your request.
The request should be consistent with the manipulation undertaken: do not ask for a car, after one compliment made
How girls can manipulate men
Young girls are not as experienced and wise as women. But they also need to learn how to use manipulation competently for their own purposes. Even if the relationship is just budding, manipulation can make the relationship with a lover much easier.
Examples of manipulation:
- Create an attractive image. When you have a seductive appearance, the man focuses all his attention on you. For example: choose sexy clothes that flatter the advantages of the figure, work on your gait and timbre of the voice, making them alluring and light. Guys pay attention to even the little things: manicure, hairstyle, skin condition. But the first place is occupied by a bright personality. It is formed from: the manner of communication, the smile, the conversation.
Girls often do not use the entire arsenal of attractiveness to control guys.
- Try to get into the guy’s personal zone. At the beginning of a relationship, it is not easy, but necessary. It is not an easy task to enter the boyfriend’s personal space gently. To do this, you need: to approach your lover and lower the timbre of your voice, then you can touch his arm, and as if accidentally correct a detail of his clothes. Gentle touching and flirting will captivate your man, and he will be ready to fulfill a small wish.
In a new meeting with the guy – each time increase the scale of your desires, then he will be mentally prepared for greater concessions.
- Do not rush intimacy. When a girl agrees to early sex with a guy, then the possibility of building a serious relationship with her is reduced by half. The right thing to do is to refuse intimacy on the first dates, thereby stirring up a man’s interest. The guy will be forced to look at your relationship seriously, because the girl values and takes care of herself just for him, and this is very tempting.
Sincerely show interest in his affairs, and create a light and bright energy around you, which he will be attracted to. Ask questions and try to learn more about his life, namely his victories and successes.
The Psychology of Manipulating a Man
Psychology has long recognized manipulation as a competent and correct way to influence a man. It is a great art, mastering which you will be able to gain power over people.
Let’s break down 3 methods and examples of psychological manipulation and learn how to use them:
- You need to learn the object of manipulation. This should be done at the very beginning, in order to correctly select the methods of manipulation that can have the best effect. For example: it will be useful to find out in which situations he has made mistakes; what he finds most difficult; what makes him happy and enthusiastic, and what, on the contrary, makes him angry and apathetic. Thus, you need to find out his weaknesses and strengths.
- Manipulation through emotion. Very easy to manipulate a person through emotion. All you need is to cause the necessary emotion in the guy, which will induce him to take the expected action.
- Manipulation through the mind. This method is quite difficult, but it is the most correct and effective. Many people live by reason and think logically. In order to manipulate a man through reason – embed in his mind you need your message. Then he himself will develop his thoughts in the right direction, and take the expected action. To succeed – you need to learn how to confidently and interestingly put forward bright ideas. Ideas that look beautiful and correct make an impression and will be successful tools of manipulation.
There are some caveats in the psychology of manipulation: act unobtrusively, discreetly, everything must be in moderation, otherwise there may be a repulsive effect.
How to learn to manipulate
The art of managing men has been taught since ancient times. Can comprehend it any girl. The main thing is to remember some of the secrets.
The meaning of any manipulation – is to help a man to feel superior, and thus make him believe that all his decisions, he takes care of himself.
Learn to use bold manipulation techniques as well:
- Provoke jealousy. Say that you received a gift from a mysterious stranger, show the gift, then your man’s sense of rivalry will come into play.
- Suddenly disappear. Don’t be afraid to abruptly leave the date – it will act on him as something unfinished, but spectacular. And soon, he himself will offer to meet you again.
- Play with sexual provocation. Promise an unforgettable night beloved, if he will fulfill your request.
- Show your offense. Not often, but brightly. Be sad, and sad in front of him.
- Use ignoring. Proved that ignoring is one of the most powerful ways to manipulate a person.
- Be unpredictable. Unpredictability is always interesting and appealing.
How do you manipulate to fall in love with yourself?
Manipulation is very often used in order to fall in love with a man. And it is quite effective!
Use the following tips to make a man become yours:
- Your femininity. Long, well-groomed hair, a fine scent of perfume, a nice makeup, mystery, inaccessibility. All this will awaken a hunter and conqueror in your man.
- Use his weaknesses.
- Flatter him as much as possible.
- Show that he is smarter and stronger than you, even if it is not.
- Sometimes use a little bit of your own tears.
- Use his name in your conversations as often as possible.
- Ask him to help you more often, and sincerely thank him for his help.
- Show you care for him.
- Respect him or her.
- Learn information about how men manipulate women themselves.
- Stay mysterious and independent.
- Support him in all endeavors, and then he will appreciate you madly and never let go.
How to manipulate with words
The word can both hurt and gladden. The power of words should not be underestimated. There are phrases that can affect the male subconscious, and make him act as you please.
Examples of phrases:
. Words of love are pleasant to everyone and always. So skillfully use them at each of your requests.
- I need your help. Show your weakness, thereby elevating him.
- I can be silly. This phrase proves your sincerity and lack of arrogance.
- You are the best. Such a statement shows that he is number one for you.
- Ask rhetorical questions.
- Use understatement in the conversation. This always keeps you interested and attracted.
- Words of praise and gentle sensual phrases, can take you to a better level of relationship and reciprocity.
Manipulation at a distance
In modern times, many relationships begin and continue at a distance. Fortunately, this is an age of new technology that allows you to communicate through texting, calling, and social media. Yes, live communication is better, but still you can find a way out in this situation as well:
Communicate with your loved one more often, but don’t be intrusive:
- Find out how his day is going.
- Ask for support.
- Write words of love.
- Communicate by video more often.
- Write cute texts.
- Play with texting.
- Use texts of an erotic nature.
Don’t use the phrase: “We need to talk. This phrase is scary and alarming.
And the phrase: “I’m waiting for you. Guess what I’m wearing?” – On the contrary, relaxes the man, turns him on and attracts him to you like a magnet.
Try to communicate at a distance as if you were very close. Discuss your affairs, share your experiences and impressions. And then the distance will not be a hindrance to you, but on the contrary will prove that your love is able to pass any tests.
In addition to general recommendations of manipulations, there are more individual recommendations. Astrological recommendations are considered the most accurate and correct. If you use them competently, you can achieve the desired result much faster and easier.
Methods of manipulating men, by different zodiac signs:
Aries. The Aries man is a pioneer. He just loves to solve complex problems. They are persistent and active. Get the desired result from him can be playful. For example, say that the mission is not feasible, and with incredible confidence look into his eyes. Then, the man will be ready to move mountains to fulfill what was expected of him.
Taurus. Always honoring traditions and trying to fulfill his obligations. You can tell him that it is necessary and many people do that, then Taurus will persistently and methodically fulfill your requests.
Gemini. Rather unpredictable and fickle, there is no specific approach. But do not despair. You can try to impress him with the erudition and the interesting dialogue. Also in course it is necessary to use your intuition, without it it will be difficult to achieve the desired from this man.
Cancer. A Cancerian man may need a long time to persuade. He will respond to your requests, but not immediately. To speed up the process, you can try to cajole him. He has a fine mental organization, kindness and responsiveness, so the gentle and soft requests of a girl with a sad look, will not be rejected.
Leo. Male Leo needs constant and loud admiration. Given, these factors, you can say that you will be wildly delighted with him if he can fulfill your requests. Then, Leo will try to prove to you that he is capable of anything.
Virgo. Difficult to manipulate, because he decides everything on his own. For such a man, you need to find weighty arguments and try to prove to him that what you want is necessary for both of you.
Libra. A man of the zodiac sign often procrastinate in making a decision. Therefore, you should try not to leave him time to think, and quickly inclined to do what he wants. Libra does not like conflicts and therefore will fulfill your requests in order to keep the agreement.
Scorpio. How to manipulate a Scorpio man? It is dangerous to apply methods of manipulation to such a man, because he is quite a vengeful person, and he himself can skillfully manipulate others. Only the distance will help you tame the Scorpio. While you will not let him close to you, he will try to approach you. In doing so he will be able to do a lot, because his goal is to win you.
Sagittarius. Strongly trusting. You can just openly ask him to fulfill a request, without any manipulation. He is sympathetic and generous by nature, so refuse the girl he loves just can not.
Capricorn. Too stubborn, he always stands up for his opinion. But here, manipulating him will be quite difficult. Is that you can try to remind him of the nobility, to help the weaker. Perhaps the high intentions will be the very stimulus for him.
Aquarius. It has a strong intuition, so it can see through all your thoughts. He is very free-loving, you should not put pressure on him. It is better to cautiously hint about your request. If he will understand that his freedom is not threatened, then he will be happy to respond to your requests.
Pisces. Crazy dreamer and romantic. He is immersed in his fantasies. To get what you want from him, you should just tune in to his wave. And then unobtrusively and gently you can urge him to start to act.
Manipulate men in order to improve your relationship, not for your own gain! Therefore, try to make the little feminine tricks serve only as a tasty seasoning to a warm and tender dish of relationships.
Take into account and apply these recommendations for good, but remember, to learn competent manipulation, you need to understand that there is a fine line that separates the good manipulation of evil. This line must always be respected!
But in order not to become caught on a hook, you must also have information about how men manipulate women:
General rules of manipulation, from the video you will learn the most common methods: