Have you tried to get a guy back after a breakup? 54 replies on the forum

Have you tried to get a guy back after a breakup?

Please share your experiences. Or maybe he came back on his own? And on whose initiative did you break up?

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Oh my God. author, do not try to return anyone. I can tell you from my own experience: we broke up on his initiative (even though we both loved each other madly, it just happened that way). I barely made it through. Nine months passed (. ) and he showed up. We started dating again, living again, plans and blah blah blah blah. : months passed and we broke up again (he texted me to get over him and leave him on my own, but I didn’t argue either). Two months passed. I have not shed a single tear, because all these 6 months waiting for when and how we broke up again. REMEMBER: 1. You have to let go in order to hold on (there is even a song like this, I recommend listening to it, the artist is Dust, the title is “Button”). 2. He who has betrayed once will betray twice (the Bible says something similar). So be glad that you broke up (all that is for the best) and do not try to bring anyone back, have some dignity. I decided for myself that if he shows up again (and I’m sure he will), he will call, and I won’t even pick up the phone. I definitely decided this after he came back.

Once at his initiative, I called after 11 months, we got together, then we broke up after 3 years. Then he called after 8 months, got back together, still together. But I know we will get back together, even if we split up – we love each other. Every year it gets stronger and stronger.

I tried, I did not come back. We parted on my initiative. It has been 4 months, I have not tried not to call or write. It makes no sense, I am nobody for him, I am sure he does not care about me, he does not even remember my name. He is successful, rich, not deprived of the attention of women. But I still respect his decision and let him go with love and gratitude. Let him be happy. all the same I know one thing, that even in riches, he will be poor without me!

I did.But I myself was the initiator of the parting.Two months later, we started communicating again.True, he did not immediately return, he was offended

Yes. By ignoring him. I sent him one message that I wanted to be friends with him and that he was a good man and all that and I went down. A couple of weeks later he showed up himself. I think that for nothing, I want to break up soon.

He left me two months ago. But I did not try to get him back, because he clearly told me “I do not want to meet him”. I twice offered to just communicate, but he did not want to. Well, I let him go, I do not write, I do not call, I do not fall into his eyes unnecessarily. In general, I think that if he left you, there is no point in trying to fight back, if he left you, he has no emotions toward you.

No, I wouldn’t. If a guy leaves you and you’re tired of him, you’ll find a replacement.

They all always try to come back after a while. From 2 weeks to six months.

Dumped! 3 months later he came crawling back himself and got married!

I got cold to my husband, decided to leave (everything pissed me off, fighting every day, the baby cried from our scandals) in short, complete bullshit. He left, and I thought that I was mistaken and brought him back. We started over, the scandals came to nothing, but I got cold to him then and still do to this day. I live for the baby, the sex is terrible. I think that no matter on whose initiative we broke up, we shouldn’t get back together, you can’t glue a broken vase and you can’t return what you had before.

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They all always try to come back after a while. From 2 weeks to six months.

I haven’t noticed anything like that. Maybe in your dreams. What’s the point of leaving the person you want in the first place?

They come back, if they have not found another and not all and not always. There are proud, resentful, they even if alone will not return never!

We broke up recently with my ex on his initiative, he said that he fell out of love, before that we also broke up, he said that he did not love me, but I groveled in front of him and asked him to come back, we met for six months, and a month ago he wanted to come back, and I again began to grovel, write, call, cry. And now I look at myself and feel ashamed of myself. It turned out that in a month I even forgot him, although I thought that I would be unable to live without him.So my advice to you is NEVER grovel and do not ask to come back

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Girls, help me understand and what to do in general. Here’s the situation: I dated a guy for a year, but because of my relationship troubles and jealousy he broke up with me. A month later he showed up and said that he missed me and wanted to try to start up, but not as before (we had a long-distance relationship) and when we were together, we communicated for two weeks, after that he wrote that he started to meet a girl. I let him go. But then he comes to my city and we met as friends, but then slept together, says that feelings are of course me, but to spoil relations with the girl does not want. I see and he sees that between us unreal connection and ***** what feelings. I do not understand what to do, I want to get him back. Please help me.

Well, yes, very often men are trying to get back, even if the initiators themselves. The point is that in the relationship everyone tend to get tired of something, whether it’s scandals, jealousy, and everyone wants to relax, there is nothing wrong with it, you can take a break, then he will realize that he needs you. And you should not give yourself completely and completely to a man, maybe that’s why he loses interest?

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We parted on my own initiative, in a month I came back, we are still seeing each other.

i have a story in general, we broke up on his initiative, he listened to my relatives’ advice that i cheated on him. but this did not happen. when we broke up he said that he never loved me, cannot give me what i need. i tried to communicate with him, but he would answer me dryly, rudely, told me to fuck off. he was fucked up, i supported him as i could, though i was even worse. I loved him, I couldn’t breathe without him. half a year later he contacted me. he wrote me how he was doing, etc. he asked to meet me. he made a date and then stood me up. i got tired of it and i sent him away. he got married, had a child, i got married too. now he sees me on facebook, likes my photos. he apologizes. but he is not trying to come back. Although I know that he still likes me. I don’t know what’s going on in people’s heads.

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I did.But I myself was the initiator of the parting.Two months later, we started communicating again.True, he did not immediately return, he was offended

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How to get back to your relationship with your loved one: 10 steps to return love after a breakup

Women are much harder to endure a breakup with a loved one than men. Sometimes it happens for ridiculous reasons, because of a silly quarrel or coincidence of circumstances. So how to get back to the relationship and who should make the first step?

If the breakup happened at the beginning of an affair: draw conclusions

It often happens that a couple disintegrates at the beginning of a relationship.

This happens for a variety of reasons:

opposing characters;
unfinished relations in the past;
mutual claims;
jealousy;
different social positions;
treason.

If the breakup happened because of a quarrel, a grudge, then, of course, it is necessary to understand the situation and draw conclusions for yourself. Very often people show their own pride and do not go to the reconciliation first, whether man or woman.

If your partner is dear to you, there is nothing shameful about it, on the contrary, the initiative to resume the relationship, to solve the existing problem shows that you care about the person. This is a bold step.

But if a man reacts in any way, ignoring, then you should think. Perhaps he does not need it at all. If the man is interested, then in spite of a grudge or a fight, he will make contact.

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A common problem for many couples: Women idealize men, give them qualities that are not their own. After a short period of time, the true character emerges, and then there are problems and disagreements.

The girl can not understand where the guy she fell in love with went. Often this happens because during acquaintance and at the beginning of the relationship the man wins the lady, shows his best qualities and when he understands that he has achieved his goal, he relaxes.

There is no need to think that the man will change dramatically, change his habits and character. No. There will be no drastic changes, it is impossible to reeducate a grown man.

Sometimes everything is more prosaic: people realize that they do not fit together and break up. Do not be upset if this happened: in a couple of years, such a breakup would bring more pain and disappointment.

If the relationship was serious, can it be restored?

It is much more difficult to get over a breakup if the relationship was long and serious. First of all, before you decide to try to go for reconciliation, you need to think thoroughly about the question, but is it really necessary?

Maybe love has long outlived itself, and you were just together out of habit. If you are sure in your feelings, then you should understand the reason for the breakup.

You can try to reunite in the following cases:

Separated on the background of misunderstandings and domestic quarrels. Joint life often collapses when people do not discuss important issues, and accumulate it in themselves. You need to learn how to talk and listen to your partner, to make mutual concessions. If the man also has feelings, then he will go for a dialogue and return the relationship is real, the main thing is not to make the same mistakes again.
The reason was jealousy. Often, to attract attention, women make the beloved jealous, but not all men understand this impulse and as a result, the couple can separate. Another option: a guy or a girl is too jealous by nature and any attention from the opposite side is perceived as treason, then you should change your own behavior, to pay more attention to your beloved to avoid such problems.
Relationships worsened with the birth of a child. Most divorces according to statistics occur during the maternity period of a woman. There is a new family member in the house, the spouses start a different life, which directly depends on the child. This is superimposed on the internal and external changes of the wife, often occurs postpartum depression. These factors have a negative impact on the quality of the relationship, most often it is the man who can not stand it and leaves. It is possible to renew the union, but both partners need to work on this. You must learn to help each other, distribute duties, and spend some time together. In severe cases it is advisable to see a marriage counselor.
Not enough time to be together. People are sometimes separated by mistake, assuming that they have become uninterested in their partner. Modern life goes on at a frantic pace and little time is left for personal relationships. If feelings are left, it is better to give your partner a little weekend or honeymoon to experience passion again. Perhaps this will be a new start.

If you broke up because of your infidelity: the most difficult option

Cheating is exactly what many men and women can’t forgive.

But if women, especially married women, still try to keep the family and take their husbands back, the opposite sex sees such a mistake as a betrayal and a humiliation of their own dignity.

Is it possible to try to save the union after this, to return the former love?

A lot depends on what kind of adultery it was:

A long-term affair with another man;
A casual fling;
an affair with a former lover;
only hugs and kisses, no intimacy;
virtual flirting.

If you had a constant lover, in order to return your husband, you need to prove your love , to wrap him with affection and attention. But even this is not a guarantee that the spouse will forgive.

A little easier if the connection was accidental, to spite or in retaliation against a partner. But even in this case, you need a desire for reconciliation on both sides.

Sometimes because of the lack of attention from her husband, women make accounts on social networks and flirt with strange men.

Of course, this can lead to the breakup of the couple, but this type of “cheating” is the most innocent, and if both partners listen to the claims of each other, solve domestic problems, misunderstandings and mutually make concessions, then the former relationship can be renewed.

10 steps how to get back in a relationship, if you still love

If the feelings for the man remained and you do not see further life without him, you can try to act in a certain way to return your companion.

Call him, but wait time.

You need to wait a short period of time, from a week to two, then call and unobtrusively learn about the affairs, what is happening in life, mood and work. In the first conversation after the breakup is not necessary to talk about feelings and put moral pressure on your partner.

After a couple of days to make a call again, you can try to arrange a meeting and spend time in a cafe, for a walk.

The main thing is not to clarify the relationship, to recall past quarrels and resentments. Communication should be easy and pleasant, so that your loved one will again be attracted to you.

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Ask forgiveness

When the contact is established and you can see that the man is in a positive mood, you can ask for forgiveness for the offense. Do this gently and unobtrusively, from the bottom of your heart.

If you are not ready for such a step, then you should not hurry: your partner will feel falsehood, and then the situation will only worsen.

Talk to his friends

To find out the location of his favorite try to talk to his closest friends, find out what bothers your loved one, how he feels about the divorce. Based on the information obtained, draw conclusions.

In a conversation with friends, mention that you have changed and now have a completely different perception of the relationship, would like to try to get back together with his beloved. Surely the family will pass this information to the man.

He should know that you have changed.

To once again attract a partner, you need to change for the better: change your image, repaint your hair, make a beautiful styling, makeup, manicure.

Unexpectedly show interest in your partner’s hobbies, which previously did not arouse your curiosity. The results of their changes try to bring it to him: you can as if by chance appear near the man’s work, in a company of friends, post photos and videos on social networks.

Impress him again.

If you have planned a meeting, you need to prepare thoroughly: dress to the guy’s taste, use his favorite perfume. Imagine that this is your first date and you need to impress your date. This will be easy, since you already know what he likes.

Bring back memories.

Memories are an important part of a loving relationship. Schedule a date at some memorable place associated with pleasant moments.

You can reproduce the environment of the first meeting, acquaintance. Such a move clearly will not leave a man indifferent, if he still has feelings.

Do not waste time

If the meeting was successful, you need to remind about yourself: with a message wishing you a good morning, a question “How are you?” Here it’s important to force the events and act quite aggressively, otherwise the meeting will be forgotten and he will have time to find a new girlfriend.

Make him nostalgic

Unobtrusively you can remind what a beautiful couple you were. Remember the time together, admire his skills. Remind him how much he loved you, and tell him that you miss it now.

Remind him of his commitment.

You can use a clever way: Remind him of his commitments (if any). This can be a relationship with the children, promises or vows that you made to each other, but now he can not fulfill them.

Work some magic

If all of the above methods work, the man does not return, then you can try to resort to magic. But it is worth extremely careful in choosing charms and incantations.

To avoid consequences, it is necessary to use only white magic. On the Internet you can find a lot of charms, which are easy to do yourself. If you are not confident in your powers, then contact a specialist.

What you need to consider: nuances and important little things

Before returning the former relationship, you need to weigh the pros and cons.

Do not try to get a man, if you split for the following reasons

your partner raised his hand at you, repeatedly beat you up;
you are not ready to change your lifestyle, your desires;
Your partner has a strong psychological pressure, humiliates you;
you do not match the temperament and character.

Family, the relationship between two people is the daily work of a man and a woman. If one person is constantly making compromises, and the second is only using and manipulating, it is unlikely to get a good union.

Mistakes girls make when rebuilding a lost relationship

Breaking up a relationship leaves a strong emotional trace in the soul of every person.

Many girls make a lot of mistakes out of resentment:

Trying to make their former partner jealous by entering into a new union;
Overwhelmed partner calls and messages, literally do not give him breathe, which only irritates a man;
Arrange trouble a man at work, say some personal things or put unflattering photos and videos on the network, thereby cutting off the possibility of resuming the relationship;
Many mistakenly think that a man will change dramatically after a short break, but in practice after two to three weeks everything is repeated, and the couple is again on the verge of breaking up;
girls, trying to win the attention and location of her beloved, fully adjust to him, and when the goal is reached, they again repeat past mistakes.

Conclusion

If the relationship has given a crack, then there is no need to immediately divorce, break up. Very often marriages dissolve due to ridiculous circumstances or because of fatigue of both partners, domestic stress.

Take time for each other, talk about your worries and take an interest in your boyfriend or spouse’s life. It is important to learn how to talk, listen to each other, and deal with difficult issues.

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