How do you know if a man has feelings for you? Motives for his behavior

Do men know how to hide their feelings?

Have you ever had a man/boyfriend love you for a long time and you didn’t realize it and found out after a long time? Or are men simple and don’t know how to hide feelings?

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If you have doubts, it means he is not in love, maybe he just likes you as many

Mine of course rarely says he loves me, but I can feel it. It manifests itself in caring, respect, openness. And, of course, displays of affection and tenderness, kisses, hugs.

There are people with innate talent for acting, they will hide anything. And if you take the average person, they are bound to slip up somewhere. Often you can at least recognize sympathy.

Have you ever had a man/boyfriend love you for a long time and you didn’t realize it and found out after a long time? Or are men simple and don’t know how to hide feelings?

I was in love with him for five years, and I had no idea. I thought we were just friends, had common interests. I realized that he loved me when he caught me with another man.

I had such an acquaintance, I was sure that he was in love and hides his feelings. it turned out that he just wanted sex with me, I was the most beautiful girl in his circle. how did I find out? very simple. I was very sick, I told him, and he did not react. I asked him directly that you really do not care about me so much? i got the answer: i am tired of running after you, you still do not give me anything, it is easier for me to fuck lenka, at least she is not so beautiful, but i do not have to think about it. and before that i could not believe what he did! i sent texts in the middle of the night, every day calls, gifts, etc. it lasted a month, i was beginning to feel as a queen to rule over men and seven kingdoms, but it turned out that he just wanted sex. and at first he was sympathetic, it is clear. So all of them know how to hide and fake it. They are just as sly as we are in this respect.

Men tend to get caught, even when they’re hiding. Unless, of course, the girl is completely brainless.

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Yes, of course, we do not know how, follow them like dogs and drooling. One such clever colleague of mine is convinced that I am in love with her (well, a couple of times I looked at her ass, I repent), so now she is on my neck, I shift my work, thinks I can not refuse her (I still tolerate, but then debunk her beliefs in rough form)

Men are so constructed that they only accept anilingus as proof of love.

Men tend to get caught, even when they’re hiding. Unless, of course, the girl is completely brainless.

But at the same time girls tend to see what is not there, but want to see. be careful with this, sometimes a text is just a text, and flirting is just flirting.

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she smiles while it’s hot, you do not refuse her. and about falling in love with you? most likely she just thinks that you want sex with her, do you really think that a woman does not notice when people are looking at her ass?

Of course they do, that’s what I’m saying. There’s no crush, she thinks I’m in love. How do I know that? I’m just a telepath.

But at the same time girls tend to see what is not there, but want to see. be careful with this, sometimes a text is just a text, and flirting is just flirting.

That’s right.

she may be imagining things that aren’t there, but she’s dumping the job on you and you’re doing what’s most important. why do you do it? do you like her?

I agree, if we do not like a person, we can very firmly say no. This applies to both men and women. you like her one hundred percent.

Yes, I did. But we were 17-21 years old students) and we both had too romantic notions in our heads. He called me 2 years after graduation and confessed, then we dated for 5 years, we were both disappointed very powerfully and quickly enough, but we dated… I didn’t know about his infatuation, but there were some calls.

she may be imagining things that aren’t there, but she’s dumping the job on you and you’re doing what’s most important. why do you do it? do you like her?

Why don’t you like her? I like any young, beautiful girl. I’m a polite person and I don’t like to tell people to fuck off.

I agree, if we do not like a person, we can very firmly say no. This applies to both men and women. you like her one hundred percent.

It’s one thing to “like” another to “love, but hide it” of course you do, who would not like a beautiful sexy young girl? but do not think that if you are beautiful and sexy, then you are already all such a panther and the lord of men and everyone in general is in love with you. everyone wants you. this is completely different.

Yes. Many men are generous with their words. at their first meeting they will ask you to marry them, and tell you what a great guy you are in the whole world, even if you’re not OK. I know people like that, who sing into everyone’s ears, though they look so themselves, and everyone is falling for these beautiful words. then when they get tired they change into another beautiful woman. maybe at first they liked someone, and time has passed, the man realized that he has no such options, but he has you, and he suddenly found out that he strongly loved you, but hid these years. I had such a case. I was in the same company with a guy for a few years, we didn’t really care about each other. And then in a couple of years a woman comes up to me and says some nonsense that he loves me, but hides, pierce that I began to meet him. but honestly, from him there were no actions, except for a phrase that flew by once “well you know how I feel about you”. and all :d *** all this.

I’ve been there a million times. At first it was first love, so to speak. Well, went sort of like one way to go, then the coat will take off and on the hanger, then serve. I ignored him. And then I found out that he was looking for me at work, mixed up the neighborhood, accidentally two years later he confessed. Another guy lived in my neighbourhood, he never confessed to me. He told my relatives that he liked me a lot, he was in love, he was crazy about me. I am leaving out the school and the secret glances of a boy from the class – he kept silent like a partisan, even though everybody knew))) And this is the sea of cases. But to my friend I swore my love at once. In the end dropped out. I realized why this is so. I am too inaccessible and do not give signs that I like someone, rather a look of “fuck you all. That’s what my friend noticed about me. And she was all so open, ready for meetings and love, fun and cheerful, with smiles and a warm look. How not to confess to such? They dropped out, because she dissolved into them. But then I was not able to breathe away from the obsessive guy.

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¶¶ When you’re in love, you can see it, I can’t see how you can hide it ¶¶

Yeah, he walks around with his eyes shining, his hands reaching out to pinch you, dumb to the point of idiocy? That’s it, right? I was in love at school (5th grade), so no one figured it out. And it’s a lie that women know how to hide. None of my friends knew how to hide feelings. And guys are very different.

You can tell by the look and the demeanor.

I know those looks and behaviors. Then this confessed and gave away his look and left my friend with a belly on her own.

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If you have doubts, it means he is not in love, maybe he just likes you as many

she may be hesitant because she’s untrusting ))))

There are people with innate talent for acting, they will hide anything. And if you take the average person, they are bound to slip up somewhere. Often you can at least recognize sympathy.

is when he hops to her in bed, hugs and kisses her, and says that he does not love her)))))that also happens.

Being in love has its edge.

I agree, if we do not like a person, we can very firmly say no. This applies to both men and women. you like her one hundred percent.

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Why does a man hide his feelings?

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Expert – Margarita Lopukhova

Family psychologist. For 8 years I save the “family unit” from collapse. I help couples regain love and understanding.

Probably every girl at least once in her life asked the question: “How do I know that a man is hiding his feelings? And no matter, whether it’s a regular guy at school, winked at you at recess, but you’ve already managed to think that he was really in love with you up to his ears. Or a friend at university who helped you solve a difficult problem and asked nothing in return.

Or maybe it’s a work colleague who goes out for coffee every time at the same time as you do. And every time in any of these situations a girl asks herself – “how do you know if he really likes me or it’s all an accident, and if he does, how do you know. that he’s hiding this feeling?”

Why won’t a man admit it?

In order to understand a man’s feelings and why he won’t admit his feelings for you right away, you have to understand why he doesn’t do it in principle.

Perhaps modern girls, after watching beautiful movies about love, expect the same beautiful, extraordinary and courageous deeds from men in the real world. But real life is not a movie or a book, with prescribed characters and the storyline in which at the end all will be well. In real life all is not so rosy and no one can say with absolute certainty that this man is your destiny and you should make a lot of efforts to reach him. This will be one of the main reasons why a man hides his feelings.

As much as a man doesn’t deny it or hide it, he can also be scared. Sometimes he’s afraid that his feelings are just unrequited, to say the least, and if he opens them up, he’ll just be shunned or even ridiculed. Or it could be that it just won’t work out in the end.

A second possible reason for a man not expressing his feelings could be that he is just afraid to look weak. It is difficult to say why, but in the minds of modern men firmly entrenched idea that a strong expression of emotion can only women. Men need to be restrained and balanced.

So if a girl can scream, hysterical, jumping for joy or crying in public, it will not embarrass anyone. But if a man should show tenderness, sensuality, show offence, or to shed a tear, it will be regarded as weakness. By the way, for the same reason many men are less tolerant of stress and tension. If a girl can find someone to talk, cry and release accumulated stress, the man himself often have to cope with all this, experiencing all the tension himself.

Another reason may be that a man who has learned from bitter experience wants to get to know the girl better before he enters into a relationship with her. The fact is that as soon as a man falls in love, he may simply not notice the negative features of his chosen one. For him it will seem sweet, even the way she disgustingly loudly chews and laughs during meals. Of course, soon the crush will disappear, and he will see her in a real light, but then it may be too late to think whether you want to be with her or not.

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By the way, for the same reason some men in love may specifically look for flaws in girls. They, though they do not realize it, will purposely argue with her all the time, quarrel and lead her on. This is the syndrome of the schoolboy, pulling pigtails. This way he shows his signs of attention, and thus wants to understand what kind of girl he really is. Another reason why he does not show his feelings, but waits until the feeling of a man in love passes, may be his own bitter experience.

The fact is that sometimes women can also be insidious and cruel. It happens that a man confesses his feelings, and the girl decides to take advantage of it. So the poor guy becomes dependent on the girl who does not care about him. She can manipulate him as she wants, demanding all she wants from him.

Another reason why a man may not show his feelings can be the fact that he is no longer single or that you have a significant other. Of course, everything happens, a girl can like a married man (let’s not discuss the reasons why this happens, maybe he’s not happy in his marriage, maybe his feelings for his soul mate have faded, maybe it’s a marriage of convenience, or maybe he just likes you). Or the girl herself already has a soul mate and then the man will not show his feelings, so as not to break the existing union and not to spoil the relationship.

A possible reason for this could be that the man has not yet decided on the extent of his feelings. He wants to think it over and understand if it is true love or just a little crush, which will soon pass. In that case, the girl should just wait, because in the end, when he figures it out, he will definitely express his feelings.

What are the signs that he has feelings?

So, here we have figured out why. Now let’s consider how to understand that a man hides his feelings and what are the signs of a man in love. In fact, there are a lot of signs that a man hides his feelings, there are universal characteristic of almost all men, there are individual, that is, those that are manifested in people of a certain psychological type, a certain training, and life baggage. But in any case at least a couple of signs can easily give away hidden feelings, so:

It is not for nothing they say, the eyes are the mirror of the soul. The thing is that the eyes are very difficult to control, and some moments are even impossible.

As many have probably heard the girls are very well developed intuition and empathy, or as they say, the emotional intelligence. Because of this, women can understand a child at a very young age, when he can not yet express his feelings and needs in words.

Here the situation can be similar. It is worth it for a woman to look into a man’s eyes and his real desire is no longer hidden from her, his eyes will literally tell her that he is in love and wanted to be developed in this relationship. Other signs may be a very long gaze of a man on the object of his desire, sometimes it is as if he goes into the astral, continuing to look at the woman.

Of course, there are also those who understand that it is indecent to devour a girl with his eyes for a long time and this may cause some questions. Then a man will often, briefly, and as if stealthily, cast a glance. Well, perhaps the most true sign that can be read in the eyes that he likes her, will dilate the pupils. Of course, this sign can not be taken into account if you are in a dark room, in the sun, or shine a lamp in his eyes and ask uncomfortable questions.

The second sign, which can be very difficult to control will be gestures. A great deal of research has been done and dozens of books have been written on the subject of emotions and gestures. Without a doubt, we can say that emotions and gestures, most often manifested without the control of consciousness, and directly related to the subconscious, and can express exactly what a person so wants to say or do.

And if a person can somehow learn to control emotions (although again, there are studies that have proven that no matter how a person controls himself, a real emotion will slip on his face, even if just for a split second), then with gestures everything is much more complicated. For example, you can determine that a man likes you if he tries to copy your pose, of course if it happens subconsciously.

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During the conversation he is turned with his whole body. The toes of his feet are in your direction, he may hold his hands open palms up. Or he may show his masculine strength and representativeness by putting his hands behind his belt. He will try to keep his posture straight and his abdomen taut. Also, at such moments the body contact is important. For a man will be characterized by bodily contact, light touches on the arms or shoulders of the girl.

It is characteristic for a man not only to show closeness in his emotions, but also a desire not to devote others in personal matters and experiences. But if he likes the girl, you can be sure that sooner or later he may ask her for advice on what he should do in any situation, talk heart-to-heart, or even help with clothing choices.

One of the most obvious signs that a man is not indifferent to someone will be a change in his appearance. In order to make an impression, a man will want to look as good as possible, perhaps to buy a few new things in his closet, purchase expensive accessories. Also, a new haircut, and a smoothly shaved face may be indicative. Perhaps he will decide to join a gym and improve his appearance in this way. One of the obvious signs that the man feels sympathy for you will be that he suddenly began to smell nice perfume, if he has not used it before, of course.

It so happens that nowadays a man’s point of view is valued above that of a woman. But if in some situation a man agrees with you, supports your point of view, or even concedes, then most likely he cares about you. The same is observed during any game, he may deliberately succumb and lose to you. By the way, this is also found in animals, such as dogs.

If a man likes you, but he does not talk about it, then the way to understand that a man is in love, but hides his feelings will be jealousy, it is definitely not possible to hide it. As soon as he sees the girl with another guy, or feels a hint of the possibility of this, then be sure to show aggression on his part against his opponent.

It also happens that a man likes the girl, but he sees her very rarely. In this case, he may try to get acquainted with her through a social networking site. Here everything is much easier. Although a woman can’t see his eyes or his pose, but if he has viewed your page a few times, appreciated at least a few of your photos, he almost certainly has some feelings. Well, if he’s brave enough to write and continues to write, even after the girl gives one-word answers and does not support the conversation, you can almost hundred percent sure he likes her. Although there may be a variant that he needs something from her.

And finally, girls, do not look for hidden hints where there are none in fact. If you have seen a manifestation of some signs of a man, it does not mean that he really likes you or that they were addressed specifically to you.

If you are sure that the man to you is not indifferent, it is worth looking closely at him and decide for yourself whether you want a relationship with him. It happens that you just have not noticed it before, and maybe you did not like him because he was shy and quiet and did not show himself.

But believe me, sometimes you need to give a man a chance to see who he really is, maybe getting to know him better, you will realize that he is the prince on a white horse, you’ve waited all your life. If you are firmly decided with the fact that he is not suitable for you, it should hint at it, but not subtly, so that he is still a week breaks his head over what you wanted to say.

It is better to say it as gently and delicately as possible, trying not to offend. There is no need to break his heart, just because you do not like him. In the end you may even acquire a very good and loyal friend in his person, and maybe even help in the end to find him a better half, who will be crazy about him.