How do you know if you love a man?

How do you know if you love a man?

This is very accurate information here…

The older I get, the more I realize that love doesn’t exist. There are people more suited to a particular time in life. Someone I need, someone I need.

I agree. I have a very well-developed logical mindset. Basically, it would be like that if it weren’t for the help of scientists who found these hormones and studied the process of their production in humans. Technically, this state can be recreated for any length of time by choosing the right dose of certain hormones.

I think there is no such thing as reciprocal love.

If for many years you do not think much about him, but at the sight of his soul trembles, is it love or pain?

I have not found an answer to my question.

I answered yes to all the questions, but I do not feel love in my relationship with my husband. If we didn’t have our babies, we wouldn’t be together.

Thank you, you have helped me to understand or rather to be finally sure that I love my husband.

Everyone can think, reason, fantasize, use scientific evidence all they want. But I can say for sure that when you love, the man is in your head, in your heart, and of course even the thought of him makes you twitch, very pleasant in the whole body, just a kayf. I’ve been in love with a man I think is perfect for 5 years now, and he loves me. We are very similar in many ways, even though he is a man and I am a woman, but I see myself in him. We are very temperamental, we are just two magnets, and when we are together, then the world stops. We don’t need anyone, nothing, it’s just space.

Thanks for the article, I got 2 minuses to 10 pluses!

I think there is no love yet, but somewhere close to it. No inner freedom, there is some dependence, sometimes resentment … Constant thoughts – “does not love” … Although some points are accurate. It is possible that I am not capable of anything real, and I am stuck at this stage…

It didn’t help anything.

And I answered yes to everything…

I think I love, but most of the answers are no.

I answered YES and I know I love, I really do, but unfortunately it’s not about my husband who we’ve been together for years. You can throw a stone at me, but I can’t help myself. I think about the man I love every day, thoughts of him fold into poems, my soul blossoms, etc., etc. We are separated by miles, he is far away, I think if I were closer, it would be easier, though not for sure. Another thing that gets in the way is prejudice. He is free, but I have a family… Really, it is more and more difficult to live with my husband. Anyway, I’m not gonna bore you with this. I will just say that the feeling of love is a gift from above, unfortunately, I never had such feelings for my husband, I lived in ignorance, and now I know what it is. I thank God that I was able to experience this cosmos.

Hello, I have a similar situation. I have been living with my husband for 15 years. During that time, we have been together and apart several times. I don’t know what my husband’s reason for living together was, but it was convenient for me (not financially – he could stay out of work for years, but he looked after the kids). We moved in 6 years ago and it turned out that a neighbor lived next door to us, I liked him immediately, but he got married and started living in another city with his wife. Three and a half years later he got divorced and started to visit my husband from the neighborhood to socialize. For over a year I like him a lot, all the time I think about him. Every time I come up with a reason for my husband to invite him over. There are no relations with my neighbor, I think he does not even suspect my feelings for him. I don’t know what to do, he started telling me that he met a girl and that he was tired of being lonely, and I hear all this and my heart breaks. I don’t know how he feels about me and what I should do…

A man confessed to me in facebook. And how do I know if he really loves me or not, if there is no way to meet.

All the twists and turns, just do not make it out.

I did not underline for myself from this article that I had to … Answer my questions. I still haven’t figured out if I’m in love or not, when so many years in a marriage and suddenly something incomprehensible happens, these questions start popping up.

Thank you, you have helped me a lot. I am 14 and in love with my classmate. At first I thought it was sympathy. After all, I’ve fallen in love before, but not for more than a year. And this time for two years. And I realize that my feelings are different from before. I’ve sacrificed a lot for him. His interests are more important to me than my own and others. Now I do not know what to do. Help (

Very informative article, thanks to it I became more confident in my feelings for the man I really care about. I realized that I am ready and willing to fight for his heart, I realized that my feelings are not just another attraction, but true love.

Everything became clear to me now.

Love doesn’t exist, love is a deception, a fairy tale, and if it did, it would give only pain, not happiness. After all, we are mortal.

Let me tell you a “secret”: there is no life at all, it’s just someone else’s crafty simulation. We are just characters in someone else’s clever game.

I think about him not only before I go to sleep, I think about him all the time… I couldn’t believe at first that I was in love. Thought it would never happen to me again… I fly, I smile like a fool, I’m happy just to have him, I call other people by his name) I want to be near him, I want him… When I think of him, my head starts spinning… He is the most wonderful… I’m gone just….)

Most of the answers were no. I can not understand what attracts me to him, what hooked me?

Thank you so much. You have helped me a lot to understand:) Read the article better in their normal state (meaning not under the influence of emotions) to adequately assess the relationship in question and more accurately understand everything. Happiness to all!

I can not understand: can I reconcile and accept the shortcomings of the person I really feel free after the breakup or I’m just tired of sorting out my feelings and I want it all to end sooner? (((

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I no longer doubt) Although before, too, then I experienced attacks of tenderness, then the terrible irritation. Could not understand love or not. It’s been over a year since we were together. Eh, I wish we could go back. ))) I realized quite clearly that I love and have always loved) Different feelings, sometimes even a loved one can be annoying. Mine irritated me because he paid too much attention to me. It was too much, I do not remember that in 4 years we were separated for more than a week) Constant control was from his side – it also pissed me off terribly. Now I realized that he lacked attention, so he followed me everywhere).

We’re always digging around in ourselves, trying to figure out how we really feel, and when we do, it’s too late.

Don’t listen to Dr. Dick.

Alice, I am in a situation where I had a breakup, kept figuring things out, and once again said that we are breaking up (although it has happened a million times when he has hurt me) and he agreed to my surprise. I know that he loves me, but here’s the first I do not want to approach, I did want this!!! And now I suffer, and besides, I know that he is now to be easier to get over the breakup turned his attention to the other. While time has passed a little, I’m afraid that it was like yours, that a year later I realized that I refused his fate and that he is the one and only Savmy. I know that we broke up but nevertheless I cannot forgive him for flirting with someone else, it seems to me that he betrayed me and in fact he could try to return our relationship.

Alice, I am in a situation where I had a breakup, kept figuring things out, and once again said that we are breaking up (although it has happened a million times when he has hurt me) and he agreed to my surprise. I know that he loves me, but here’s the first I do not want to approach, I did want this!!! And now I suffer, and besides, I know that he is now to be easier to get over the breakup turned his attention to the other. While time has passed a little, I’m afraid that it was like yours, that a year later I realized that I refused his fate and that he is the one and only Savmy. I know that we broke up but nevertheless I cannot forgive him for flirting with someone else, it seems to me that he betrayed me and in fact he could try to return our relationship.

Read Transurfing Reality. I think it will answer a lot of questions for you. There is an audiobook and there are also video lectures. It is not necessary of course stupid and unconditionally follow everything that transurfing teaches, but something useful for yourself you will extract. You will understand your desires and feelings.)

Lisa, and in general I wonder! here you are 28 years old, and you want to older than you, ie, 30-35 years, and while single, without children, but confidently standing on his feet.

So a man should be born, finish school, go to college, finish it, go to work, work until he gains experience, and it will turn out that by the age of 30-35 he will “stand on his own feet. But he should be up to 35 years, the best years of his life, to live alone, to work, get on his feet, what would then kakanit girl came to all ready and that’s it happiness! Life is good! Isn’t that fair. A man has to get on his feet all by himself, and everybody has to take advantage of what he’s earned.

You’re telling the truth. It’s a pity a lot of women don’t understand that.

It seems to me that all people have doubts. always. and not only on the subject of love. when you meet a man, you fall in love with him without a memory. you try on a wedding dress in your mind. and you know that “you will die one day”. and then just like that, he is gone. he left in your heart only pain of loss, suffering, you feel that the whole world collapsed, no future without him. and even then: no you. You lock your heart and swear to yourself that you will never love again. I guess I’m not the only one who knows this feeling. I think most of us have been through it. And how not to doubt after that. how to believe that when the time comes, you will meet “your” man. how not to think that maybe he was the one that was “your”. and now he’s gone. and how to open your heart to someone else.

I recently broke up with a guy, I thought it was not love, just found out that he was doing fine without me, even made a girlfriend! it pains me. and now I do not know whether I love or not! (((( help, girls! maybe it’s just a sense of ownership? I wrote him that maybe try everything from the beginning, he did not answer.

Let some time pass, you need to give time to the fact that you are not together, then you will know whether you love or not. Often we confuse affection with love.

And I have the same problem, I began to doubt. I’m married with a daughter. But we live at home as neighbors, and I am not worried, and I would even be glad if he found a girlfriend and was happy. How do I explain it, how do I figure it out? My brain is already boiling. I’ve been having these thoughts for about three months now.

Is love gone or something? Or maybe it just wasn’t there, but there was affection and habit, after all, he was my first man. I don’t know how to understand it.

Maybe anyone’s had a similar situation.

For the sake of the child I am not going to pull these strings of relationships, I myself grew up in a family where there was no love, but lived for the sake of children.

I have a similar situation, he loves me more than I love him, he is sure that I am his man, and I am in doubts. With my mind I understand that only a prince from the fairy tale will be better. I am 22 he is 24, I also see a man who is better off, stronger on his feet. and he is a boy, but he loves me, eh ((((

I always doubt too, I’ve been dating a young man for 2.5 years and at first I loved him, but with time the passion passes, the veil falls away, you start to see a man really, flaws irritate, you get used to advantages and do not notice them, leaves a pivot, respect (if any). But one thing has not changed: I never wanted a child from him, so when it came to the wedding, we broke up. But it takes strength to realize it, determination, it’s very hard. No doubt he who does nothing.

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Lisa, if the thought that he likes another, you feel bad – then you are not indifferent to him)))

well not indifference and love are different

I’m an Aries and i’m in the same situation right now. i can’t leave him = i’m afraid it will break him

I am a Sagittarius.And I have doubts, that is why I am here.I began to realize that we do not understand each other, I am bored.Flaws begin to annoy strongly.I really like the other man.While friendly relationship.Perfectly understand each other.He is interesting to me. But I pity, current boyfriend, I am afraid that it will be hard for him without me.I do not want a child from him.But I am afraid that after breaking up, will not start a relationship, with the man that I really like.In general, probably need to wait for the moment when everything becomes clear.How to act, in your opinion?

I do not know whether I like him or not!

It is inherent in an intelligent person to doubt!

Hello! Help me, what should I do? I have a wedding coming up. And I’m in doubts. We have been together for 5 years, 2 years of living together, doing repairs, have two cats. This is the first serious relationship I’ve ever been in. I’m 26 years old, he’s 28. Never had any passion. Before I met him I was exhausted, I really wanted to be loved. I felt comfortable with him from the first meeting, as if he was my own. I wanted to be with him. His love was growing. Now he loves me very much. But I have doubts. I think I am always glad to see him, to hug him. We sleep in each other’s arms. He is the closest person to me. I have many common interests and views. But there is no romance, he is not romantic at all, he is practical. I notice his faults and try to correct them. A year ago I noticed that I could flirt with others and look at others. And now there’s this other guy. He’s from my job. I’ve noticed that I’m happy when we work together, I’m happy when he sits next to me, watching. I really wanted him to go to the corporate party. And he went, was beside me, got me drunk, and started kissing me. It felt good, I was happy. I know that he is a pig (he has a girlfriend), but I was attracted to him. The next day, after the corporate party, the happiness was replaced by pain. I could not look into the eyes of my MH, I was torn with remorse. I told him everything, I cried, I felt better. He didn’t blame me, he forgave me. Like, I was drunk. I calmed down, but not for long. When I meet that guy at work, I am still attracted to him. And in my relationship with my boyfriend, I do not have enough fire, sparkle, passion. Although I relate to him very fondly, we are kindred spirits. What to do. Help me.

Just looked at our photos. And my heart is crushed – he is so dear to me, so his! If you knew what a good man he is, he is a rare man. And I cry, and I do not want to leave him! Maybe I still love him, and everything else is nothing more than a hobby!

Irina, my advice is to protect these relationships.Love and sexual desire are different things.I left my boyfriend when I was 20 because of this “spark” to another, I thought that I did not love, if it attracted me to another.10 years later, I think-oh fool I was…

God, I’m in the same situation. And I’m a cancer, too.)

Girls, it’s been two years.

I think I have had everything in my life: 1.Passion-when I want to.A nice guy, a cool body, it seems-here it is, love has come. Passes 3 months and I understand that this guy is just a pretty picture, except to put it in a corner and admire, there is nothing else to do with it.2.Psychological dependence is something that most of us think love-how to call him, write, be near, think about him, want only him. but “he’s an idiot, a jerk, he left me, married, drunkard, womanizer, I can not understand it-that’s what we hear about the relationship. Often this addiction and caused by circumstances on which you can not be with him (the distance, treason, cheating), you just have not achieved what you wanted, you do not love him, because if he was good, ran away from him. The best way to fall in love with yourself-do a nasty thing to the other half at the most inopportune moment candy period, and then act as if nothing has happened.You just cause addiction.Generally from this must treat, but alas, people think it love, make up, forgive, and then all over again and suffer through life.3 .Addiction- met two lonely people, looked closely, both good people, common views on life Decided to live, get married, children.Developed a habit over time. In this situation love specifically for something, and not just for fun – this couple domostroev.Many people live their whole lives and think they love. But some after three years comes depression-boring, something is missing.There is not enough passion, emotion, there is nothing to remember.Each person decides what is closer to him-change sexual partners, to live in pain, but with a storm of passion, to live in a quiet cavonia.We make our own destiny.

Love. It is the other half-this man is your copy.(Even outwardly, he may look like you)It is not true that opposites attract. When I met him, he could read my mind-I was shocked when we suddenly wanted ice cream, drink (I think he buys it). We wanted to sleep together and wake up at the same time, the same thoughts, the same views on life, parenting, life and even hobbies. My sense of humor and sarcasm in general is not tolerated by others, but he joked the same way and he answered me in the same way. He called me from another country and we talked for 6 hours about everything and nothing. of course there will be arguments and scandals, but love is when there is passion, dependence, but it is mutual, no one is an idiot, you can understand each other, give in, and most importantly, make each other happy, without demanding in return, to give. Love can change a man before him I always had lots of suitors and with him I did not need them (I always need men’s attention), I just felt ashamed (for the first time) I did not want to hurt him, to cheat, even if he would never know about it. I had to go to live with him and I refused, because I only wanted him to be happy. I told him not to bother me anymore, because I understand that the mother, traditions, family customs of these people always come first.I did not want to turn our fates into a nightmare.Maybe I was wrong. But now I know exactly what love is, in my example of dozens of couples I know only two who love each other, all the rest cheating. Chel.komplozhnosti, the harder it is to find his likeness.Ne worth bothering about this feeling, as most of the planet lives, not knowing love.Mozhet it and for the best.

He loves me no matter what I was (makeup or not, combed or not, harmful, capricious, etc.) He wants to be always with me and never leave me, I know it. But he is older than me by 10 years. I also have such moments when I want to be with him alone, when I am bursting with tenderness towards him. And sometimes on the contrary. What to do?! Maybe the age difference prevents?

A girl asked a guy if he thought she was cute. He said no. She asked if he wanted to be with her forever, and he said no again. Then she asked him if she left, would he cry and the answer was no. She had heard enough. She turned to leave, tears running down her face. The guy took her hand and said, You’re not pretty, you’re beautiful. I wouldn’t want to be with you forever, I HATE it. And I wouldn’t cry if you left, I’d die. Aren’t those sweet words. Tonight at midnight your beloved half will realize how much she loves you. Something good will happen to you tomorrow at 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. If this chain of letters is broken, you will face 10 problems in the next 10 years. Tomorrow morning, that person you like will declare their love for you. Tomorrow is your best day, if you don’t send out 20 of these letters by 12 p.m., your love story is over. It’s not a gag or a lie. Just copy and paste.

Hello. he was my first man. although he did not match my ideal outward appearance, i fell madly in love with him. he turned out to be a married man, and also with two children. He did not live with his wife, and it is true, he is still married, because they have a common business. this is verified information. It was a complicated relationship, fell into a so-called emotional addiction. in general, we had everything. and breakups, and wild sex, and the torment of not being able to get him out of my head. in general, we broke up for a year. I tried to start a relationship, but I could not, could not get him out of my head, out of my heart. I suffered terribly. psychotherapists, antidepressants. nightmare. exactly one year later, he came out to me through my sister… talked me into a meeting… we met, talked. everything started all over again. BUT. now he is divorced, we see each other every day! attention, gifts, participation in my life 100%, loves me to madness, and I after a week after the reunion began to doubt. I felt that I kind of fell out of love, although I feel that I love, I felt just the opposite. it is difficult to even explain. I feel tenderness, in sex everything is fine, even better than before, I see that he can not without me, but now I Doubt. Maybe I passed off a painful attachment for love? maybe I got used to the suffering in love and can not accept the fact that everything is finally OK, but if before and was afraid that he will never fall out of love, now I am tormented by doubts that I have fallen out of love. I only know that I am incredibly fond of him, I admire him sleeping, even cook for him (note: I can not cook), I imagine him the father of his children. then why, once he finally became mine, knowing that I love him, I doubt and fear that I have lost him? maybe because there was no pain, which I now lack, and my mistrustful and restless nature just need to suffer and worry? HELP!

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Aries, by the way, are also incredibly mistrustful and suffer from such a trait as SOMETHING.

Exactly the same situation. (Although I am a Sagittarius) With the guy were born on the same day and year. We meet about a year. Earlier somehow did not think: love or not. Now I doubt strongly. Sometimes it is terribly annoying. And sometimes I just want to see.

Love. It is the other half-this man is your copy.(Even outwardly, he may look like you)It is not true that opposites attract. When I met him, he could read my mind-I was shocked when we suddenly wanted ice cream, drink (I think he buys it). We wanted to sleep together and wake up at the same time, the same thoughts, the same views on life, parenting, life and even hobbies. My sense of humor and sarcasm in general is not tolerated by others, but he joked the same way and he answered me in the same way. He called me from another country and we talked for 6 hours about everything and nothing. of course there will be arguments and scandals, but love is when there is passion, dependence, but it is mutual, no one is an idiot, you can understand each other, give in, and most importantly, make each other happy, without demanding in return, to give. Love can change a man before him I always had lots of suitors and with him I did not need them (I always need men’s attention), I just felt ashamed (for the first time) I did not want to hurt him, to cheat, even if he would never know about it. I had to go to live with him and I refused, because I only wanted him to be happy. I told him not to bother me anymore, because I understand that the mother, traditions, family customs of these people always come first.I did not want to turn our fates into a nightmare.Maybe I was wrong. But now I know exactly what love is, in my example of dozens of couples I know only two who love each other, all the rest cheating. Chel.komplozhnosti, the harder it is to find his likeness.Ne worth bothering about this feeling, as most of the planet lives, not knowing love.Mozhet it and for the best.

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