How do you know if a guy likes you after your first meeting?

How do I know if a guy likes me after a first date?

On a date I was invited to a movie. Before that, we communicated only on messaging. He met me at the car, all the way almost silent. I asked a few questions, to which I received an answer, but he did not ask anything about me. After the movie, the same thing. At the end of the date I thanked him for the evening and he embraced me as if to say goodbye. He did not say that he would call me or meet me. Vobshe did not say anything during the date, i.e. before the movie and after. By correspondence, if he always wrote what he was doing, where he was going, etc. He asked very little about me. He saw my photos and always invited me to go somewhere nibbut. So we went out. now I do not know how to understand it.

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Usually after a date you ask if you want to meet tomorrow.

Well, there are two options. Either you’re super beautiful and he’s shy, so he went into a deep stupor. Or you are so much inconsistent with his image in the photo, that he felt deceived and experienced irritation. That’s why he didn’t even want to communicate with you. What’s there to guess? If he doesn’t get in touch in the next few hours, it’s not yours.

Yeah, the movies are a bad place for a first date. Sitting in the dark, staring at the screen. No talking, no eye contact. Oh, come on.

Author, it’s a piece of cake to find out if he likes you and wants to continue. If he called/texted you, then yes. If he didn’t call/text you, then no. Wait two or three days and you can forget him.

Wait two or three days and you can forget him.

Don’t call him yourself under any circumstances.

Well yes, usually if a guy likes a girl he will definitely ask about when you will see him again. There is something wrong here. I agree with the comment above, if he remains silent for 2-3 days feel free to forget. Even if he then declared do not believe a word that, piercing, business was or something else.

The movie on the first date is really a bad place 🙂

I had a case similar to this one. For a long time sought to date mch. with me (met on SZ), in the photo was just macho to the same works as a photographer. As something did not perceive it seriously, thought so untwists him to shoot)) well, I kept him up five times, as a result, when I met him I was stunned straight very prominent and intelligent man. Almost my ideal. Came out with him in a cafe, was such a modest-silent. But at the same time, he was smart and sexy. I did most of the talking and asking questions. At the end of a sluggish goodbye. I left in such a sad state of mind. I even cried over my share of women. I could not stand it and wrote a letter saying that I was sorry that I did not like you. I received an answer: I liked you too, and I am leaving soon for a business trip somewhere. Thank you for yourself that you kept me busy for a month, we could have spent unforgettable days together (( God, I almost ate my keyboard from resentment (( here I am ***** stuffed God! ! So the author could just ask, no?

Finding out if he likes you is easy. If he cum on your face and shouted hoarsely “ohtyjfuck” – then he definitely liked you!

I had a case similar to this one. For a long time sought to date mch. with me (met on SZ), in the photo was just macho to the same works as a photographer. As something did not perceive it seriously, thought so untwists him to shoot)) well, I kept him up five times, as a result, when I met him I was stunned straight very prominent and intelligent man. Almost my ideal. Came out with him in a cafe, was such a modest-silent. But at the same time, he was smart and sexy. I did most of the talking and asking questions. At the end of a sluggish goodbye. I left in such a sad state of mind. I even cried over my share of women. I could not stand it and wrote a letter saying that I was sorry that I did not like you. I received an answer: I liked you too, and I am leaving soon for a business trip somewhere. Thank you for yourself that you kept me busy for a month, we could have spent unforgettable days together (( God, I almost ate my keyboard from resentment (( here I am ***** stuffed God! ! So the author could just ask, no?

He did not go to war, and went on a business trip, so he’ll be back soon. So he pinned all the dogs on you, you obviously did not like him that much.

You should thank yourself for dicking me for a month, we could have spent unforgettable days together (( God, I almost ate my keyboard from resentment (( Here I am ***** stuffed God! ! So the author could just stupidly ask, no?

He’s kind of rude and hysterical. You wouldn’t have had a great day with him.

He’s kind of rude and hysterical. You wouldn’t have had a great day with him.

Why wouldn’t I have? I did! I had a very romantic story (it’s a pity it’s over now and won’t happen again), we met afterwards. And a very good time))) long to tell and all confused. I wrote it all to mean that it is not necessary to sit and think sits and like it or not. And just ask . He’s not a slayer, trust me.)

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He did not go to war, and went on a business trip, so he’ll be back soon. So he pinned all the dogs on you, you obviously did not like him that much.

I’ll probably never meet him. I work as a flight attendant. I’m such a f.z.dabb.oka. Well, okay, maybe someone can use it. When I flew to Thailand on a business trip, I went on Mamba, which has a function of your location at the moment. So, he wrote to me, living in the same area: Type meet, walk. For his page I realized that the photographer and how it does not take it seriously and blew him off as soon as I was there and he found out about it when I went online (often flying in Thai). And at the end of the season did meet. … I wish we had not met (very dignified, handsome, talented, intelligent. Lives there constantly, travels much. So that is how it is.

Don’t call him yourself under any circumstances.

What the fuck does he need a fish for? Fish in conversation = log in bed!

He’s kind of rude and hysterical. You wouldn’t have had a great day with him.

What’s a dick? If he’s telling the truth, he’s a jerk?

What the fuck does he need a fish for? Fish in conversation = log in bed!

“a guy with no initiative – ********* sluggish

“a guy with no initiative – ********* sluggish

It’s quite possible, that’s the kind of guy who gets the sluggish chicks. If a woman isn’t able to draw for three days, she doesn’t give a fuck about a man.

What the fuck does he need a fish for? Fish in conversation = log in bed!

Not true, not at all.

He loves her, but he doesn’t do anything.

Jealousy. Mh is in a relationship with me and talks to his ex-girlfriend.

I think he’s fallen out of love.

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11 signs that a man is interested in you after a first date

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You met a man. You like him. You had a first date which seemed to go great. There is only one small problem which, in fact, lies in this word “seems”.

How do you know that you really like your new acquaintance? Wait for his call, or call yourself? But what if he doesn’t like you? Here are eleven sure signs which, with a high degree of probability, may indicate that you fall into the heart of a man, and he probably won’t mind meeting you again.

1. The eyes .

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When you strike a chord with a man, he usually makes an effort to look you in the eye as you speak. You yourself probably know how you want to catch every glance of the person with whom you are romantically involved.

Try to remember how the date took place.

  • Was there a single moment when his eyes crossed yours for a long time?
  • Who looked away first?
  • And if it was you, did he try to catch your eye again after that?
  • If the meeting took place in a cafe, and you went somewhere, try to remember whether he kept his eyes on you when you went away, whether he met you with his eyes when you returned?

If a man almost never took his eyes off you, then there is a good chance that you have made a positive impression on him. If he was constantly looking away, watching other people, the door, the waitress, the menu, or anything else, then your chances are not very good.

2. he was repeating your gestures.

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There is a technology that allows you to track what’s called principles of interpersonal communication. It is called neurolinguistic programming. Many people consider this direction to be pseudoscientific, however, the fact is that a number of principles of this technology quite works in practice.

In particular, it has been noticed that one person in the process of communication often begins to copy some gestures of another person.

Such behavior can often be observed among old friends, colleagues, married couples and so on. According to experts, the fact that one person unwittingly repeats the gestures of another person can say, for example, that the first person considers the interlocutor interesting, getting subconsciously under his influence.

For example, if you crossed your arms, then your interlocutor may do the same; if you put your foot on the leg, your interlocutor may also repeat this movement. Leaning back – the person you’re talking to may also lean back in a chair. If your new acquaintance showed such behavior during your date, then this may indicate that he was at least interested in you. At most, he liked you.

3. Touching

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Touching is one of the key points of any flirtation. Of course, we are not talking about vulgar manifestations, passionate hugs and kisses. But even on a first date, a man may, as if casually, touch your elbow or shoulder.

He can, as if accidentally, remove a strand of hair from your face, or gently cover your palm with his palm, as if supporting you in the conversation, agreeing with you or comforting.

However, there are usually no accidents in this situation.

Any such touch, even a fleeting one, indicates that the man subconsciously wants to be closer to you. By the way, if his casual touching is rather frivolous (he tries to kiss you on the first date, touches your knee, hugs your waist), then his goal, rather than a serious acquaintance, is to get you into bed tonight.

Keep in mind that touching may be absent because your new acquaintance may be very shy. However, that doesn’t negate the fact that he might like you a lot.

4. Convergence

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Observe people talking at work, in the mall, or just on the street. Notice how close they stand one to the other . When people are interested in talking, they may stand very close to one another, almost to each other.

Even if they are sitting opposite each other, they may also lean into each other during the conversation.

And vice versa, if the person is not interested in the conversation, if he is not interested in the topic or the interlocutor, he may turn away from the speaker, lean back in a chair, and even try to leave quickly.

If you show a certain amount of attention, you can sometimes see how your colleague, who sits across from the chief who reprimanded him for some fault, involuntarily turns his knees toward the door. It seems that if you let him go, he will run away!

And on a date, people behave in much the same way. Let’s leave all these stories about privacy and other nonsense! Think back to those moments when you were passionate about the conversation with your partner. Was there a rapprochement between you, literally, such as the one described above? If your answer is “yes”, then it is possible that you aroused the man’s sympathy, and he does not mind continuing to get acquainted.

5. He listened to you and asked you questions.

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Needless to say, the vast majority of us, firstly, not very good at listening, and secondly, likes to talk more about his person. And even on a first date, we often find that the man we have just met is more willing to discuss his personal problems and concerns, talks about his life.

However, this is not always the case. When one person is openly interested in the personality of the other, the first one begins to listen to him attentively. At the same time, he emphasizes his interest by asking a number of questions.

Think of how to build a conversation on your first date.

If the man you met, really interested in your person, she certainly asked you various questions related to your life. He could be interested in your biography, your childhood, your career, your personal goals and aspirations. At the same time, he listened carefully to your answers without interrupting or pulling the initiative.

If the dialogue was conducted in this manner, there is almost no doubt that you have aroused sympathy in the man and you can safely try to develop a relationship. Another thing is if the man practically constantly talked only about himself. Also, not a good sign is if he immediately forgot what you said, and you have to repeat the same thing.

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This suggests that the man showed little interest in the date and in you personally. No, of course, you can assume that he liked you so much that the representative of the stronger sex is just very nervous and shy, being unable to concentrate on the dialogue and the details. In any case, this is not a good signal, indicating rather that he was not interested in you.

6. He was trying to impress you.

Men almost always and everywhere try to impress the lady they like. Think back to when you were in kindergarten! Was there a courtyard admirer of about your age, who likes to rassekat before you on his tricycle, riding back and forth in the yard and vypydayuschaya not the safest pirouettes?

This is about the same behavior of older males, demonstrating various techniques aimed at causing surprise or, God forbid, admiration in the lady. Try to recall exactly what your new acquaintance was talking about when the conversation was directly about his personality (after all, you couldn’t talk all the time just about your person, could you?).

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Maybe he was talking about how he’s had a dizzying career. Or about how fast (reliable/rare/powerful) his car is? Did he talk with enthusiasm about what goals he had in life, what he dreamed of? And were these goals lofty, noble, or just very attractive from an ordinary point of view of life?

The fact that men, having met a representative of the fair sex, which they liked, trying to present themselves to her in a good light (women, by the way, behave the same way). Telling about his achievements or plans for the future, he will “show off” his best qualities, carefully masking what may cause doubts in his positive image.

7. Laughter

Laughter, of course, is usually a sign that a person is content, feels comfortable, and enjoys doing something. On the other hand, laughter may be a nervous reaction of the subject to a situation or circumstance . Either way, if your date was downright hilarious and was accompanied by frequent bursts of laughter (on both sides, otherwise it looks kind of weird!), this is a good sign.

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Agree, a man may well be nervous that he really liked you a lot. He may have even laughed inappropriately at your not-so-funniest jokes, and sometimes looked a little silly . But the reaction was still laughter, not indifference or awkward silence. And so a little nervous laughter is also a good enough sign that the date didn’t go so badly.

Not necessarily that the reaction was laughter at all. It is enough to remember how often he smiled at you . And if a smile practically never left his lips, it can also indicate that the man clearly liked you.

8. He agreed with you

What did you tell your new acquaintance on the first date? Did you tell him about any conflict situations in which you showed an unwavering stance? And how did he comment on your story? If the man took your side, actively enough to support your position with additional arguments, then he probably likes you. If, on the other hand, he disapproved of your position, the chances of a second date are very slim.

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It’s not a bad sign if the man was nodding vigorously during your conversation, often saying things like “yes, yes, that’s right! , “I totally agree with you!” ,” “that’s what I think too,” and so on.

Did he support your views on life, did he share your tastes in, for example, music or movies? It may well be that he does not like the same movies and the same music that you – time will tell, if you continue to communicate. But if on the first date a man made it clear that he and you have the same tastes, then the second date must be!

9. You discussed so many topics that the date dragged on.

What can we talk about on a first date? Yes, about anything – because you just met a man, so almost any topic for you is undisclosed in terms that you have not exchanged their views on this or that issue. If your date was fleeting, ending rather quickly with the duty phrase “well, I’ll call you sometime. Then don’t get your hopes up that this man will show up in your life.

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It is very different if you have managed to discuss a lot of different issues for the first date, to exchange their points of view on a variety of topics. And you are so engaged in conversation that you didn’t notice how several hours flew by. It is practically impossible to doubt that you aroused a genuine interest in your new friend, and he was trying to grasp the immensity, not wanting to part with you.

In this case, you can be sure that he will call you soon to continue your fascinating conversation. Or call him yourself!

10. He made it clear that he loves children.

Think back, did you touch on the topic of children in your first conversation? And if so, what position on the issue stated your new acquaintance? The fact that experienced men are usually very well aware of how to use the instincts of women, including her maternal instinct. So if he himself started talking about children, saying how important this moment in any person’s life, it could mean that he was trying to make a positive impression on you.

So why try to make a positive impression on a girl who does not genuinely sympathize?

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Of course, this sign can only tell you that the man really likes children – that’s all. However, chances are high that if a man during a first date has let you know clearly that he loves children, then he did it intentionally, trying to please you with his position on this issue.

He paid for his own lunch or dinner.

In today’s world, everything is so mixed up that a once perfectly normal gesture on the part of a man – to pay for dinner with a lady on their own – is no longer perceived by all as a given (including men themselves). Let’s not hide the fact that women themselves are often to blame for this, as they often demonstrate how emancipated they are.

Of course, perhaps your new acquaintance is so wealthy that he has no problem at all buying you a car on the first date, let alone paying for dinner! And then that gesture doesn’t say that he likes you at all. However, we are proceeding from the reality of the situation ! And if the man actively insisted on paying for everything himself (even if you then split the bill), it is possible that he was trying to make a positive impression on you. Including in order for a second date to take place.

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What else should you look for to know that the first date was successful

Remember what happened at the end of the date to avoid making a mistake – it’s very helpful to draw a correct conclusion about whether a man likes you.

  • Did you exchange the first friendly kiss on the cheek or even on the lips?
  • Did he shake your hand a little longer than usual, holding your palm in his?
  • Did the man himself bring up the question of a second date, saying that he would like it to happen as soon as possible?

All of the above are very positive signs that a second date is likely. If the man not only did not talk about the next meeting, but even kept silent when you raised the subject, there is nothing to rejoice about – your chances are slim.

But let’s speak frankly: if a man really liked you a lot on the first date, then you are unlikely to have to suffer long doubts waiting for his call or message with an invitation to a second date! Of course, it often happens that a man does not call or write because he does not know what impression a girl has of him after a first date.

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Well, in this case re-read carefully all the signs presented in this article, and if at least one of them took place, then either call yourself if you feel like it, or be patient and wait – he will definitely call you himself with a proposal to meet again.

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