Cancer Man in Love
If we talk about how a Cancer man loves, he can be compared to a hero lover. The same romantic, sensitive, knows how to charm a woman, subtly woo, feel her mood. With him can get a beautiful, unforgettable romance, because his character is calm, soft, malleable. Rudeness, aggressive behavior, irascibility, it is not inherent.
Emotions and feelings for him, the most important criteria in selecting a partner. Can quickly fall in love, get used to, during meetings to convey the full range of emotions. Can also quickly become attached, especially through intimacy. Some women agree to intimacy in order to tie their partner to them more strongly. But this move doesn’t work as well as with a Cancer man. If the relationship will be filled with heartfelt feelings, emotions and end in intimacy, he will get more accustomed to the woman.
The attachment of a Cancer man in love is strong, deep, but emotionally unstable. There may be thoughts that the chosen one may leave, fall out of love, leave. At times he can not interpret the situation correctly, dramatize, creating an image of the victim. He tend to resent, to recall the past, often high spirits alternate with resentment, vulnerability, when closed in itself, as if hiding under his shell, no one close not podpuschaya.
With him, you can learn a lot of vivid feelings in the relationship, it emphasizes the emotions. And what they will be in a few hours, he does not know. But do not be afraid of his rapid change of mood. In any case, he will be attracted to his beloved for a long time, and it is difficult for him to go to the end of the relationship.
He is so emotionally aware of the world around them, that inadvertently said a harsh word or remark deeply hurt. He is a vulnerable man, though he tries to show himself to be calm, that he doesn’t need anyone. In fact, he needs a woman caring, kind, sympathetic, like a mother who can understand him, support, comfort, help.
He tend to dream of an ideal woman, fantasize about the future. Sincerely will hope that his chosen one is ready to accept him for who he is, with all his good and bad qualities. If he sees that he has become the most important person in life for his beloved, he will open up more. An emotional connection is very important to him.
A Cancer man wants to lead a quiet and measured life, any drastic changes in life, extreme situations, thrills he will not like. If his usual, favorite way of life changes, he will become cold, withdrawn. He will not like the fact that his chosen one destroys his family values: shows inconstancy and frivolity, provokes him to thrills or criticizes him. There is no reason to think that criticism can push him to act decisively. No, that will not happen. Susceptibility to the influence of others, plus a vivid imagination and strong emotionality can lead to unpredictable results. In any case, his opinion of his beloved may change. He is especially acute when criticized by his relatives and friends.
Love Relationship with a Cancerian Man
A man born under the sign of Cancer believes in true love and wants to know it. However, he may have some difficulties with communication with the opposite sex. This is due to his closeness and fear of trusting another person and opening up to him. Conservative Cancer man wants to have one woman and for life, according to the traditions of society. The woman the Cancer man will pay attention to is likely to be modest and quiet. She will have maternal traits of character, she will be an excellent mother and a good hostess.
Her behavior will probably not be defiant and provocative. Rather, Cancer will pay attention to a woman who is similar to himself – preferring to stay somewhat on the sidelines, calm and intelligent. A woman, according to the Cancer man, should inspire trust and a sense of security. Mate Cancer should take it for what he is and not blame him for his lack of masculinity and weakness. Only a woman can trust a Cancer man and give his love. And, believe me, he has a huge reserve of love inside.
In order to start a relationship with a Cancer man, you should try to take the initiative. Most likely, he himself will not make the first step. You need to do it yourself and by no means overdo it – this will scare Cancer, and he will close. Act softly, patiently, but persistently, be close to him, but do not get into his heart – and the Cancer man will open up in front of you. As for the sexual aspect of life, the man-Rac may have certain complexes that prevent him to realize in the intimate sphere. The partner of Cancer needs to understand that he needs time to get closer to the man, and only after that sex is possible.
Compatibility with the Cancer man in love will be good if:
- She has always wanted to be a housewife;
- Family values are very important to you;
- You have a developed maternal instinct, want to take care, care, help;
- You want to receive care, understanding, support;
- Like subtle men, emotional, soft, gentle;
- Appreciate in a man the ability to be affectionate and caring;
- Hurt the restraint and coldness;
- Want a man to be faithful and loyal;
- Imagine yourself as the head of the family;
Compatibility with the Cancer man in love will be difficult if:
- Want new acquaintances with men, flirting, communication;
- Reach out to everything logically, without emotion and feelings;
- Think that a real man should be restrained in emotions;
- Do not like those who quickly change their moods;
- You do not want to give birth to children, you have no desire to be a mother;
- No desire to have relations with his relatives and friends;
- Appreciate in men independence, independence, poise, calmness;
What kind of women like a man-Racus?
Men of this sign give their preference to quite nice and calm women who are able to create real comfort and warmth in their relationships. For a man born under this sign of the zodiac, family plays a very important role. So, in the process of choosing a life partner, they immediately try on the responsible role of the keeper of the home. Cancers are crazy when their woman begins to take an interest in their life. They are madly fond of romance, so by arranging a simple candlelight dinner, you will win even more favor of this man.
His ideal beloved is a tender, emotional, understanding, sensitive, serious and caring woman with traditional family values. If the woman wants to get: passionate feelings, surprises, love passions and vivid experiences, then the relationship with Cancer will be in jeopardy. Passion in a love relationship, of course, can refresh the feelings, but they must be in moderation. It is difficult for him to withstand the incessant heat of passion, he wants more peace of mind, emotional, where there is understanding, warmth, affection, tenderness.
They value in a woman loyalty, as they consider it one of the most important criteria. Representatives of this zodiac sign come too jealous personalities. A huge scandal can occur just because you look at another representative of the stronger sex in the wrong way. From the very beginning of acquaintance with a representative of this sign, a woman should show herself from the good side, namely, not to be vulgar and rude. Such men appreciate faithful life companions who will not demand much from him. Moreover, they need unselfish women who, in addition, madly in love with children. Remember that such a man can demand much more from you than he can offer you. So, if you really want to be with him, you should be ready for anything.
How to understand that the Cancer man is in love
Emotions of a Cancer man in love are very gentle, subtle, sincere. This will especially appeal to impressionable women who appreciate constant care, attention, warmth of heart. His emotions can be compared with a beautiful song, with the chirping of birds on a summer day, they are pure, without falsehood, unselfish. His emotions can slowly creep into a woman’s soul, into her heart and leave a mark there for a long time. In his emotions there is no ulterior motive, calculating. They are as pristine as a child’s. In his emotions he is able to give himself, his heart and soul. Expecting in response the same sincere attention, understanding and tenderness.
He tend to trust his chosen one, so he can easily show all his weaknesses, he is stranger to play fictitious roles. He is who he is and will always be like that. It is important that the woman understands and appreciates this, otherwise the man takes offense and withdraws into himself. There will be doubts, fears, why in general open your feelings, to show emotions to others, if no one appreciates it. Do not forget that it is easy to hurt and offend. Arguing and aggressively defend his opinion, he is not able to. But withdrawn, will painfully experience every word, deed. Just for him is more suitable statements that words can hurt like a sharp knife. Or that words are so heavy, cold, like stones. Prone to heartache and unable to defend himself, one of his weak character traits.
It is important that he felt in a woman a kindred spirit and open emotional. One sincerity in dealing with him is not enough, you should also show cordiality, friendliness, gentleness. Next, you have to try to ensure that your connection is not over, and grew into love. Get closer to help emotional interdependence. When you can not feel that you can not be without each other and need each other. For your beloved, he is capable of much: he will always be faithful, give her passion, tenderness and romance, surround unforgettable feelings and emotions, show maximum care and warmth of his heart.
How to make a Cancer man fall in love with you
He feels best in a friendly, intimate, pleasant environment where you can relax, worry about nothing and indulge in fantasies and pleasant memories. Many of the men of this sign are homebodies, the best and safest place is a cozy home. The most common places where he likes to go: a small cozy cafe, secluded areas, ponds and beaches. He is attracted like a magnet to women who are gentle, soft, delicate, and friendly. But there are exceptions when he may be interested in the opposite. They say that opposites attract.
But it is not worth specifically to demonstrate such qualities, they will not lead to anything good. If he chooses such women, then the reason for his choice is clearly a psychological trauma from childhood. He will never be happy with such a woman. If he chooses her, it is only because he likes the image of the victim, respectively, and will choose the one who gives him the suffering, experience, anguish. You’ll have to put a lot of effort to make him understand that such a relationship will never be full and truly happy only with a similar woman, with whom he has a lot in common, a lot in common.
Sexuality of the Cancer man in bed
Cancer man in bed attaches more importance not to the sexual act itself, but to the environment where it takes place. It is desirable that it was cozy, homely. Tenderness and caressing are no less important for him, even more than the intimacy itself. Affectionate glances, gentle touches, a light kiss can excite his imagination. It will upset him if a woman wants just sex and ignore his tenderness. A woman who does not hide her natural passion and hot temper will not like him. But if it turns out to be unsophisticated in matters of love, it will bind him to himself more.
Man Cancer in a family relationship
It is no coincidence that the symbols of the sign of Cancer are motherhood, family, comfort and home. The Cancer man is a gorgeous father and husband, he is a great family man, able and adoring to create comfort in the home. The family of a Cancer man is likely to be traditional and large. He wants to be the main person in the family and keep everything under control, in his hands. It is worth knowing that the value of family in the man-Raq includes his need for closeness with his family and the fear of losing them. Therefore, family for the Cancer man is one of the main treasures in life.
In general to enter into marriage with him, there will be no problem. He is already at the beginning of the relationship thinking about it and imagining his chosen one as a future wife. He will propose sooner if he sees that the main thing for the chosen one is a family, she wants to be a mother and give birth to his children. Warm relations with his family and friends, especially with his mother, are equally important. If he shows uncertainty and is not in a hurry to make a proposal, then talk to him often touch on the topic of family values, it is necessary that he himself wants to create a family with you. To all of this, add that it is important for you to feel needed, loved. And no one so will not love as children and beloved husband. Such sentimentality will touch his heart and if he really loves, he will not procrastinate long with marriage.
Life with a Cancer man in marriage will be filled with emotions, feelings, tenderness. He likes to spend more time in the family, at home, he is a real homebody. He cares more about family problems than socializing with acquaintances, news and gossip. But on the other hand, for family life, he sometimes lacks realism, especially when vivid imagination takes him to the vast expanse of emotions, feelings, to the detriment of realism. He needs a quiet family life, where he could rest and continue to work for the good of the family. However, among the representatives of this sign could be overly emotional individuals who find it difficult to concentrate on the realities of life. And then the woman will have to be more practical and think about himself and about him.
Other representatives of this sign are more practical, are not in a hurry to the goal, paying attention to all the nuances that can help him in the implementation of his desires. Whatever he does, it should benefit the family, the wife and children. Here he has no equal in caring, in helping, in supporting. It is not necessary to ask him for a long time to help, he will notice what needs to be done and offer to help. He will never leave his beloved alone, will try to ensure that she needs nothing and feels comfortable not only financially, but also emotionally.
Relationships with a man of Cancer in the family will evolve depending on his relationship with his mother, how harmonious they are and whether he was able to be independent. If his mother’s influence is great, he will constantly compare his wife to his mother. If he is inclined to listen to the advice of his mother in everything, then, depending on her attitude towards the bride, he will have a family relationship with his wife either improve or deteriorate. It is representatives of this zodiac sign that are most susceptible to the influence of their mother, and she, respectively, will influence his family, his choices, his children and his wife through his son.
If he is more independent, able to take care of himself, well-maintained family and home, then all the same, his relationship with his mother will be filled with tenderness, warmth and love. In marriage he makes an excellent, gentle, kind, caring husband. Able to give himself completely and without the rest, requiring nothing in return. His feelings are deep, constant, there is no windiness. They will live only for the family, to solve all family problems, making sure that each member of the family was comfortable and cozy at home. They can completely obey their partner.
Their attitude towards the home is traditional and endowed with a great, deep meaning. It is not just a place to eat, sleep, watch TV. And it is a place where he will feel safe, where there is a calm psychological atmosphere, where family values are respected. For him everything connected with the family is very important, he can keep family heirlooms, objects, things that were used in his family, and pass them on as heirlooms. This could also include family jewels, ancient books. He is interested in the past, in the history of his family. His ideal is a spacious house near a body of water, where he can walk along the coast, watch the sunset and be at his native element – water. It is not uncommon for him to shift a lot of chores around the house, and to work silently for the good of the family. He copes very well with the education of children, grandchildren, constantly spoiling them, caring, though sometimes his care is excessive, and in response to it he receives dissatisfaction. He resents that his care is not appreciated.
The best rest for him is to be alone, when no one touches him, does not disturb him, where he can be alone. To restore his strength, he needs solitary rest, then he will quickly replenish the lost energy. A rest on the bank of a body of water is especially good for him. Have a lot of friends, acquaintances, wasting time nu verbose he is not interested. Get along with people with caution, sometimes they may not trust right away. He would need time to develop trust. He usually takes care of his friends the same way he takes care of his family. He gives the impression of a good-natured, benevolent, caring person. Although his behavior often depends on his emotions.
Cancer has a particular attitude toward food. More he likes to eat in a pleasant, home-like environment, without rushing anywhere. Because of his attachment to his mother, he often prefers dishes that she cooked. Mom’s food for him is the tastiest, best, will always come first. It takes a long time to get used to new dishes. Can be addicted to delicious food, not paying attention to the fact that it is less healthy. May sometimes eat unpleasantness or a bad mood with sweets, or be addicted to alcohol in order to calm down. Which eventually manifests on the face and body in the form of excess weight.
How to build a romantic relationship with Cancer
Contributor(s): Stina Garbis. Stina Garbis is a psychic astrologer and owner of Psychic Stina. She has over 30 years of experience, specializing in personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot cards. She has worked with celebrities, athletes, politicians and company directors. She has appeared in the pages of various publications including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post and Reader’s Digest.
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If you like a member of the sign of Cancer, get ready: an exciting adventure awaits you. Being one of the most caring and faithful zodiac signs, Cancer is also full of difficulties. This zodiac sign includes people born from June 22 to July 23, and in this article we’ll tell you what you should expect if your chosen one is a Cancer.
- It’s important to show Cancerians your serious intentions. So if you’re interested in a Cancer, don’t hesitate: this relationship will be worth it.
- It is important for Cancer to have tactile contact. Touch your beloved, hug often and in any other way show your affection – Cancer needs it. Warm them in your arms, and they will reciprocate.
- Never ask a Cancerian on a date in the presence of other people, as this will make them nervous. Always make a date in private. Make the date easy and fun, which means don’t think of anything that will require a Cancer to be forced or will be very embarrassing.
- Cancerians know how to have fun. Since they’re aquatic, take them to the beach or a water park.
- If a Cancer trusts you, he will always talk directly to you. Respond to him in the same way. If you’re trying to create some special image of yourself, trying to be mysterious or enigmatic, don’t waste your time – Cancer sees right through you. And even if you try to hide your emotions, you won’t either.
- Tell Cancer about your family. Emphasize family relationships and connections, and make it clear that you are a family man. It will be important for Cancer to know that you are similar in this, because family is the most important value for your romantic partner, and there is little that can change that.
- In bed, Cancerians may behave sweetly rather than passionately. Romance and sensuality are more important to Cancerians than passion and experimentation. But if you can get them to trust you completely, they’ll be willing to do something new (provided you convince them that you won’t hurt them).
- This is perhaps the most serious drawback of Cancers. Sometimes it’s very difficult to take the shell off of a representative of this sign, but if you’re willing to work on the relationship, the results will be worth it. If a Cancer opens up to you, you will see a soft, sensitive nature, ready to always be there for you.
- Let Cancer take care of you if you are sick. Tell him about your new problem. Ask his advice when you don’t know what to do in some work or personal situation. Even let him cook you dinner. And you’ll only benefit from it!
- Cancers are not always intrusive. Although they can be overly intrusive, their behavior follows from the boundless love, so they are difficult to get angry. They just want to be there for you and show you how much they love you. Such feelings are admirable. If only everyone could love like a Cancer!
- Cancer will not tolerate scandals and displays of bad character. If you lose your temper over little things, Cancer will think that you are irrational and unable to assess the situation as a whole. If you allow yourself to make harsh remarks about Cancer, he will think that you do not cherish him. Representatives of this sign can be extremely sensitive when they feel vulnerable.
- Think about what you say. If you don’t mean what you say, Cancer will likely sense it and think you’re a fraud. Even if it doesn’t seem like cheating to you, Cancers will be more categorical in their conclusions, so be careful what you say. A Cancer is sure to remember everything you say.
Be frank. Cancer will have a hard time opening up to you at first, but once you manage to get close, he will be able to open up to you and will expect the same honesty in return. So be frank, tell him how you feel, because you yourself would like such a reciprocal attitude.
- Cancer people have a complicated character and can be very vulnerable. A frustrated Cancer will be sad for a week, and if he feels vulnerable, he will close in on himself and will not let anyone near him. But if Cancer feels loved, it gives them strength and confidence, and they turn into a successful, happy person. It is in your power to bring joy into the life of a Cancer.
- Don’t give in to Cancer’s bad moods.
- Be ready to always be there when Cancer needs you.
- If your zodiac sign belongs to the Earth element (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn), remember that you make decisions with your head and Cancer with its heart.
- Avoid a relationship with Cancer if both of you are very young, because it may be too painful for Cancer to face love suffering at such a young age.
- Prove to your lover or lover that you are reliable, that you can be relied upon, and Cancer will be the perfect partner for you.
- Cancer is one of the most sensitive zodiac signs, so try your best not to hurt Cancer’s feelings.
About this Article
Contributor(s): Stina Garbis. Stina Garbis is a psychic astrologer, owner of Psychic Stina. She has over 30 years of experience, specializing in personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot cards. She has worked with celebrities, athletes, politicians and company directors. She has appeared in the pages of various publications including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post and Reader’s Digest. Number of views on this article: 66 712.